Azaroth Posted April 5, 2004 Posted April 5, 2004 I am in a jam just as always.... I want something more serious, and she does not... She just got out of a long relationship and Meet me I don't want to cont. what we are doing and take time apart.... for a long time - I think She tells me she wants what i want, and says that she almost said the L word to me "love" but she got scared and ran off - more or less... I think we have this strong connection, and I love the girl so much... but I got to say enough is enough with my own emotions... b/c they are getting hurt in the mean time... I know i can't be friends with her b/c i know i want to hook up with her or even have sex and if that happens i know I will hate myself for doing so... and i can't watch her hook up with people b/c i will get mad and take it up on her... she even just said when I was ending it she isn't hooking up wit hanyone else.. How does one deal with rejection? I know i can completly disappear off the map , would that effect a girl more? or just completly ignoring them, and/or shrugging them off? I just want to make the best result to take back some of the pain and anger she caused me to have toward her.. i know revenege is not the way especially if you love someone ... but I want to make sure she knows she lost the best thing she had... any comments please!!!??!?!?
Arabess Posted April 5, 2004 Posted April 5, 2004 Originally posted by Azaroth How does one deal with rejection? Day by day till time gets you through it. Some people take longer than others. Revenge??? NAAHHH! All it'll do is waste more of your time. It won't change anything regarding the past relationship or how she feels about you now. The best thing is to give yourself some time, be kind to yourself and then decide what you want to do with the rest of your life.
Azaroth Posted April 5, 2004 Posted April 5, 2004 Well that's the bitch about love... one min you will have it, the next you loose it... but i notice the one you love, is hard to throw away.. I find it the hardest thing to do - even more then trusting someone... but that old saying..... if you let your love go and it comes back its suppose to last a life time, if it doesn't it wasn't meant to be....
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