greeneyednora Posted April 9, 2011 Posted April 9, 2011 me and my bf have been together along time. im embarrassed to say that before we started dating i drank alot and hooked up for the first time, he never did even though he had the oppportunities. he has always held this against me and has caused many fights and breakups. it doesnt come up often anymore but its always there. he knows it makes me feel bad but it just bothers him so much because he didnt think i was like that, and im not but then i was just sick of being me. we worked out a thing were he would hook up w a girl to make it even. it was my idea but im sick of him being the only perfect one. but he thinks once he does ill get so mad and dump him. he even tried putting up pics of girls but i just think its annoying. is this a unique situation at all? is it time to throw in the towel next time its an issue or suck it up?
kcahsevol Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 (edited) me and my bf have been together along time. im embarrassed to say that before we started dating i drank alot and hooked up for the first time, he never did even though he had the oppportunities. he has always held this against me and has caused many fights and breakups. it doesnt come up often anymore but its always there. he knows it makes me feel bad but it just bothers him so much because he didnt think i was like that, and im not but then i was just sick of being me. we worked out a thing were he would hook up w a girl to make it even. it was my idea but im sick of him being the only perfect one. but he thinks once he does ill get so mad and dump him. he even tried putting up pics of girls but i just think its annoying. is this a unique situation at all? is it time to throw in the towel next time its an issue or suck it up? this guy sounds like a real loser, and he has absolutely zero confidence. stop appologizing for something you did before you met him, its only making things worse because you are basically admitting you did something wrong. tell him to be a man and deal with it or take a walk and dont let the door hit him in tbe a$$! and while he is walking out with his tail between his legs be sure to mention all the guys you are now going to sleep with AFTER him! starting with kcahsevol on loveshack! this guy is a whimp, lose him fast... Edited April 11, 2011 by kcahsevol
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