Jenro Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 When a man Asks you to be patient with him, what does that mean? I have been seeing him for 5 months. I know he sees someone else and I have confronted him and he denies it. But on Monday we were together had a nice night and then he told me that I need to be patient with him. He isn't texting me as much either. But if i do text him he does get back to me. He is short though. So does this mean be pateint and let me screw around with this other girl and I will get back to you or does it mean back off give me space? Be pateint with me??? I told him that I was and as I thought about it more I think he is feeding me lies and keeping me on the sidelines. Its getting
Carrot2000 Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 So does this mean be pateint and let me screw around with this other girl and I will get back to you or does it mean back off give me space? Both. He wants to screw around and not have you say anything to him about it.
siuys Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 He is making sure you're his side dish, and will take a mouthful when he feels like it. Meanwhile, don't hassle him coz he can't give you what you want, and can't commit. But be around. Just in case he wants you. All about him of course.
carrie999 Posted April 9, 2011 Posted April 9, 2011 When a man Asks you to be patient with him, what does that mean? I have been seeing him for 5 months. I know he sees someone else and I have confronted him and he denies it. But on Monday we were together had a nice night and then he told me that I need to be patient with him. He isn't texting me as much either. But if i do text him he does get back to me. He is short though. So does this mean be pateint and let me screw around with this other girl and I will get back to you or does it mean back off give me space? Be pateint with me??? I told him that I was and as I thought about it more I think he is feeding me lies and keeping me on the sidelines. Its getting I'm sorry, but am I missing something? You're just dating this guy and you're not exclusive and you're wondering if you should stick around while he makes up his mind between you and (at least) one other girl? You need a self esteem check. If he hasn't committed to you and isn't ready to do so, either forget him or put him on the back burner while you date other men too. And you haven't said you love him...you only said you had a "nice night." It doesn't sound like there's much there based upon what you have said here.
betterdeal Posted April 9, 2011 Posted April 9, 2011 When a man Asks you to be patient with him, what does that mean? I have been seeing him for 5 months. I know he sees someone else and I have confronted him and he denies it. But on Monday we were together had a nice night and then he told me that I need to be patient with him. He isn't texting me as much either. But if i do text him he does get back to me. He is short though. So does this mean be pateint and let me screw around with this other girl and I will get back to you or does it mean back off give me space? Be pateint with me??? I told him that I was and as I thought about it more I think he is feeding me lies and keeping me on the sidelines. Its getting He's telling you what to do. Personally, I tell people I'll listen / be patient / jump through hoops / roll around and play dead if I want to not because they tell me to.
JadedAmore Posted April 9, 2011 Posted April 9, 2011 Sorry if this seems harsh, but I think it sounds like you are getting played for a fool. He definitely sounds like one of those who wants his cake and eat it too types. If it were me I'd cut off ties immediately. Be patient for what? For you to get bored of your current toy, find me at the bottom of the toy box for that temporary excitement until you find the new one? I don't think so.
fooled once Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 When a man Asks you to be patient with him, what does that mean? I have been seeing him for 5 months. I know he sees someone else and I have confronted him and he denies it. But on Monday we were together had a nice night and then he told me that I need to be patient with him. He isn't texting me as much either. But if i do text him he does get back to me. He is short though. So does this mean be pateint and let me screw around with this other girl and I will get back to you or does it mean back off give me space? Be pateint with me??? I told him that I was and as I thought about it more I think he is feeding me lies and keeping me on the sidelines. Its getting He is making sure you're his side dish, and will take a mouthful when he feels like it. Meanwhile, don't hassle him coz he can't give you what you want, and can't commit. But be around. Just in case he wants you. All about him of course. Ditto siuys. Sounds like he has no plans to be exclusive with you. I hope you are using protection because you don't need to be getting anything from any of his other lovers.
Irishlove Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Tell him to "pack sand' you have better things to do with your time. And YOU DO! <3:laugh:
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