btfu2334 Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 [FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000]So I've been going out with this girl for a few dates, and we absolutely have had a blast with each other. I know she's had a blast with me (maybe almost obsessive) because after the first she texted me that she had a blast and had a permagrin that whole next day still (even though we didnt even have sex), also that she had told her parents about me. Anyway that 2nd date was going great as well, we've been pretty touchy feeley but with no kissing/makingout with each other, but then as we were talking like she asked if i liked going down...and i told her no, and that i dont go down. She mentioned [/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Arial][sIZE=1][COLOR=#000000] [/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000]that was a problem for her because she loved that...thus I replied that for her I would, it was just something that I normally dont do. Then she got it in her head that I wouldn't be good at it...leading to pretty much a question that there is no right answer to which was how many times have I had sex...I told her 12...which scared her again because she's had sex multiple multiple times, and my answer scared her because i might not be up to par with being a good lay. Also she asked how many relationships I had been in the past and if I've ever been in love, to which I hadn't been in a lot of relationships because in the past it wasn't the right time for me and I wasnt' looking to be in one. This also scared her a bit because she didn't really want to be one of my first relationships. We talked some more and we put it behind us (or at least I thought)[/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000] as we started to madeout and went to bed with me in my boxers and her in her panties just sleeping and cuddling. The next morning was fine and we texted that day as we normally did. The plan was to go out in a few days, and I would cook her dinner; however, she had just started a new diet to where mostly she was just eating chicken. I texted her the night before, asking her about the type of food she could have for her diet so I knew what to get to cook her, she said she'd think about it and get back to me the next day. That next day I didn't hear from her, so I sent her a text to see if we were still on or what's the deal since I didn't hear from her. She texted me back that she had changed #s and didn't have my # to get ahold of me (kinda random that she changed #'s and I'm getting ahold of her on the same # and she's responding to me on the same #). Anyway she told me that she was stuck working late and wouldn't be able to do it that night. We started to text the rest of that night and it just ended randomly with her sayin that she was tired (I guess understandably because she was working late). The next day, [/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000]she didnt text me that next day, and like we've always texted...so I figured since we didnt go out the night b4 and maybe that she is thinking im "too nice" or "inexperienced" so I called her up to tell her to get ready in 45 cuz I was going to pick her up in and go out...I got a VM, but she called me back in 2 mins to let me know that she couldnt because of her diet which we talked about and she was workin out. Also, she mentioned that we wouldn't be able to go out til sunday night because of somethings that she's told me previously. She[/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000][FONT=Arial][sIZE=2][COLOR=#000000] said she'd text me that night when she got back from the gym but didnt. Now I'm guessing I might've scared her off from what I've said about my "lack of experience." Am I totally misreading the situation or what? What do you ladies think? [/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT][/COLOR][/sIZE][/FONT]
EyeJustDontKnow Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Gah, for the most part this post in an unreadable, confusing mess. But this part does jump out at me: Anyway that 2nd date was going great as well, we've been pretty touchy feeley but with no kissing/makingout with each other, but then as we were talking like she asked if i liked going down...and i told her no, and that i dont go down. All I can say is, you have no idea what you are missing.
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