Trying to get to know and possibly ask out a girl I haven't talked to in 4 months

[theoburray]

I posted this back in December on another forum

 

'I went out to a local nightclub on Thursday Night and I'd say at my best I'm a 7.5/10 except on this night my hair was a mess so I was around a 6. I was hanging out with my mate a lot and he was friends with this girl who came, I talked to her a little in the beer garden but not a lot and she is imo a 9 or 10 hands down. Anyway I have my phone and I'm doing something and she takes it off me to put her number in and she cheerful says 'Call me sometime' and has a cute laugh afterwards and calls the number straight away on my phone so she has my number which buzzes through on her phone which I see. I was getting to a drunk stage (having a good time, not falling over and making an ass of myself) and she was pretty sober btw. This morning at around 11am I get an incoming call from her yet when I answer she hung up, that is like the stereotypical male tactic when they are nervous to talk to a woman but I'm not sure what it means. I texted back saying 'Thanks for the call, lol' just to be causal but I didn't get a reply.'

 

Present Time:

 

I know I made a few mistakes because I'm 19 and have never had a girlfriend before ever, I would have called her instead of texted her if that happened now but I knew nothing about girls really back then in terms of trying to pursue a relationship.

 

But I gave up with her pretty easily but I bascially had to make a choice between pursuing her and a girl at work because trying to get both and then choosing could have turned out badly. But the thing with the girl from work didn't work out unfortuanetly and I'm trying to move on from that and I liked both of these girls a lot.

 

I know I still have her number because I texted her asking 'are you going to this club tonight?' but at the time I thought it'd be a good idea to say I accidentally texted her and apologise but then say it's me from the other month how are you? which I did and I IMMEDIATELY regretted that, it was stupid and ridiculous and she didn't text back obviously. That was a stupid idea of mine. Before I replied she sent to me 'Sorry I'm not, who are you going with? Have a good night anyway'. It was pretty general so I didn't know if she would remember who I was but I didn't think through of the fact that she didn't ask who it was who texted her.

 

So yeah I've ****ed it up a few times but I have still only talked to her once and I feel I have improved physically and personality wise since December and I want to know her more.

 

Should I ring her up during the week and start a conversation? I just don't want to rush into anything in terms of asking her out and driving her away for ever, should I just start with ringing her?