Why am I surprised .. a short rant .. or Why didn't you tell me..

[desertIslandCactus]

So my grandson's birthday is Sunday, and my son will be having the party at his house.

 

I've known my son rents out rooms in his home - but it was only with the coming of the party that my son has shared with me that one of the renters (Ali) has her 58 yr old skanky brother sleeping on the livingroom sofa (recovering from 'knee' surgery) .. and has been inconveniencing everyone as well with her 52 yr old MM (Mar).

 

So Mar comes over as often as he can (particularly every weekend) to pop Ali - and slops all over the livingroom sofa with the brother and watching my son's bigscreen..

 

Aside from Mar sharing with Ali the kitchen, laundry facilities - he even brings his big dog.

 

What I am noticing from talking to my son, is that Mar never takes Ali out of the house to a restaurant or anything .. just a booty call. His home is apparently 26 miles from my son's house .. yet he can't be seen with Ali outside of my son's house??

 

He is a User .. and he is so out of there .. All THREE of them .

[TigerCub]

What are you surprised by?

 

That your son is a bad landlord that can't better take charge of what happens in his house?

 

That affairs happen?

 

Or that MMs are users?

[desertIslandCactus]

What are you surprised by?

 

That your son is a bad landlord that can't better take charge of what happens in his house?

 

That affairs happen?

 

Or that MMs are users?

 

Oh so sorry, didn't explain myself enough.

 

Yes, my son does not take charge. I always think it's because of an overbearing mother who has always fought his battles. He told me he expects the same decency out of others that he tries to dole out. My sons are quiet and stay to themselves, and can't understand why others take advantage. His only remedie, is that last night he gave her notice to vacate.

 

I knew MM are users.

 

But even after reading on here I am surprised that the MM is such a user that he doesn't take the OW out of the house. Just uses her and others.

[TigerCub]

Oh so sorry, didn't explain myself enough.

 

Yes, my son does not take charge. I always think it's because of an overbearing mother who has always fought his battles. He told me he expects the same decency out of others that he tries to dole out. My sons are quiet and stay to themselves, and can't understand why others take advantage. His only remedie, is that last night he gave her notice to vacate.

 

I knew MM are users.

 

But even after reading on here I am surprised that the MM is such a user that he doesn't take the OW out of the house. Just uses her and others.

 

I'm sorry to hear that your sons get screwed over by people. I hope that they learn to stand up for themselves better.

 

That notice to evict is long overdue, but at least he's given it now. Better late than never

 

hehe, yeah MMs are certainly users, and its rather sad that this OW is willing to accept the bare minimum scraps, I really say that not in any judgmental way, I truly think it is very sad.

 

p.s. enjoy your grandson's bday

[desertIslandCactus]

I'm sorry to hear that your sons get screwed over by people. I hope that they learn to stand up for themselves better.

 

That notice to evict is long overdue, but at least he's given it now. Better late than never

 

hehe, yeah MMs are certainly users, and its rather sad that this OW is willing to accept the bare minimum scraps, I really say that not in any judgmental way, I truly think it is very sad.

 

p.s. enjoy your grandson's bday

 

Thanks Tiger I will.

 

(But if MM is there, I'll have to get his truck out of the driveway, he practically parks it on the porch).

 

Yes things have gotten out of hand, but God help them - I'm loaded for bear.

[jthorne]

Just a question... Are you sure that the guy is really married, or are you guessing that because he never takes the woman anywhere? I'm just asking because my mom's hairdresser is "dating" a widower. He only comes around when he wants a home-cooked meal, and he never takes her anywhere. He's a cheap @zz punk, despite being pretty well-to-do. Oh wait, there were rumors that they were "dating" before the W passed, so maybe he just has her trained for low expectations... Anyway...

 

What was my point?

 

I hope they get out and you can enjoy your Grandson's birthday!

[desertIslandCactus]

Just a question... Are you sure that the guy is really married, or are you guessing that because he never takes the woman anywhere? I'm just asking because my mom's hairdresser is "dating" a widower. He only comes around when he wants a home-cooked meal, and he never takes her anywhere. He's a cheap @zz punk, despite being pretty well-to-do. Oh wait, there were rumors that they were "dating" before the W passed, so maybe he just has her trained for low expectations... Anyway...

 

What was my point?

 

I hope they get out and you can enjoy your Grandson's birthday!

 

My son gave her 6 weeks notice and with a statement that said No more visitors. Brother is supposed to be out today. Mar was already on his way - so son said this is last weekend.

 

Somehow something came up, that made my son think he was married, and then one of the other renters reinterated to him that the man is married. Then my son asked Mar how long he has been married, and he said: Too long .. ha

 

Amazing to me though that with living 26 miles away, he just squats at my sons' house when he visits, and doesn't take Ali anywhere - so the factor couldn't be that of being discovered.

 

I know my son is the enabler in this mess, and I have told him so. I just want to get my hands on Mar .. mostly for taking advantage of my son - and actually trying to inconvenience everyone in the household. . And if that truck is there blocking the driveway and porch .. that'll do it .. ha

Edited April 8, 2011 by desertIslandCactus