Melocoton Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 So I have a GF and a year into the relationship open a business, goes well, open another one 6 months later. When I open the new one the old one needed to be transfered locations at the same exact unplanned terrible time. So I got super swamped. So swamped I had no time and was sleep deprived. I did my best to spend time with her but it was never enough. For a few months I kept reassuring her things would get better and to be patient. She got resentful, felt neglected and angry towards me and my work. I in turn didn't want to spend what little availble time I had with a naggy bitch. I wanted support and help not complaining. So she broke up with me. Four months later everything is smooth with my shops and I have plenty of time on my hands. So I'm appealing to her again. We are back together. Her problem is she is jealous and fearful of anything work related. She also fears my loyalty is with my business first and not her or a family in the future. My problem is I fear she will abandon me again if I have to tend to anything other than her needs. I try to reassure her that startup is a whole different ball game then maintaining. That everything was on the line then. Make or break. No turning back. I'm lost. Am I not seeing something here? I feel she has been selfish. Am I the one that is selfish? Has anyone been through something like this or have experience with it?
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