CARL45 Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 I find the hole process of interacting with women funny. This entire weak I have been just talking to women I have found attractive. For the most part I have come to some interesting conclusions. The first of which is all these signs people say women give you when they are attracted to you I have not really seen at all (playing with hair, eye thing, etc!). The only motto I have is just to talk to as many women as possible. One other interesting thing I have found is that the attractive women usually have a earphones on. Is this some kind of guy repellent? And if it is it kind of works because when I asked a young woman what she had in her bags this morning she had to take off her earphones and I felt like a a*hole for doing that. Anybody else have this opinion?
BeginAgain Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 The signs are there but women are so subtle as not to blow their cover other women wouldn't even be able to pick them up. Women with headphones are great. You can pretend to have a conversation with them while actually getting a word in edgewise and that's without listening to all of their guff. It is quite a life affirming experience.
Ross MwcFan Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Could it be that they do give signs but not to you because they're not attracted to you? Or have there been girls that you've had a fling/date/relationship with who have never given you those signs?
Ross MwcFan Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 The signs are there but women are so subtle as not to blow their cover other women wouldn't even be able to pick them up. Women with headphones are great. You can pretend to have a conversation with them while actually getting a word in edgewise and that's without listening to all of their guff. It is quite a life affirming experience. I find it strange that a few people still try to talk to me when I'm wearing my earphones, I'm thinking 'Hello? Can't you see I'm wearing earphones and I can't hear you?'.
Mr.Cairo Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Signs is a tactic used by some men and some women into making you think that they're into you. These tactics serve different purposes. To get free male/female attention, to have someone spend money on them, it can be to make their boyfriend/girlfriend/love interest jealous, and they can do it because they are bored and want to pass the time. Some also do it to attract as many suitors as possible and as the anaylzing goes up, you may end(or not), being given the 'oh no, I was just being friendly' speech. Pay no attention to that silly belief that, when a woman is touching her hair, she's inviting you to go talk to her. Or how when she's interested in you, her smile widens by 90 degrees to the left of Paris . If a woman is interested in you, she'll approach you. In the case of you already knowing her, she'll make it very clear by either telling you, or by jumping your bones, that she's interested in you. I find it strange that a few people still try to talk to me when I'm wearing my earphones, I'm thinking 'Hello? Can't you see I'm wearing earphones and I can't hear you?'. Maybe they think the sound is low, but then again, I've never been near a person who was with headphones, without listening to their music, loudly.
BeginAgain Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 I find it strange that a few people still try to talk to me when I'm wearing my earphones, I'm thinking 'Hello? Can't you see I'm wearing earphones and I can't hear you?'. That's the beauty of it baby. You don't need to hear me and I don't need to listen to you.
Author CARL45 Posted April 8, 2011 Author Posted April 8, 2011 I've dated women who didn't show me any of the signs and it turned out pretty well. I don't really understand how you know a woman is into you. It's just that women seen that afraid of either looking desperate (I don't get this at all?) or slutty. For men this would be the best thing in the world if women were just a little more obvious.
somedude81 Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 I never get the signs from women. The signal I usually use to base possible interest is in if she seems to be enjoying the conversation. All the girls I've went on dates with just seemed to enjoy my company and the conversation. Right now I'm kicking myself because I recently had a great conversation with a cute Asian girl. I haven't seen her since summer school and just ran into her a few days ago. I should have asked her out but I was too scared.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Signs are so strange. You can never tell if it's interest, or general friendliness.
Ross MwcFan Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Signs are so strange. You can never tell if it's interest, or general friendliness. I totally agree. I always keep getting girls/women turning their heads to look at me. Seems like it could mean they find me attractive, or it could just be a normal thing and they do it with everyone. I've just got no idea what to think.
Author CARL45 Posted April 8, 2011 Author Posted April 8, 2011 Yeah sometimes I am thinking when I am talking to a woman do they know I'm trying to flirt with them. I do hate when I approach a woman having a conversation and walking with them and their not even looking at me. I thinking to myself I'm really wasting time here and I should just leave. The funniest for me and the one I use as some kind of indicator is when a woman is enjoying the conversation too much I know she has a boyfriend. I notice single women I more guarded most of the time unless drunk.
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