loverboy1984 Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 It has been really rough on me this past month after being dumped by my gf of 6yrs. Ive been in NC for all this time and during this time I have always dwelled on the what ifs and wondering why this happened and if she would come back. Everyones logical advice sounds good but my heart was just not accepting it. Until now. Im getting sick and tired of myself talking to my friends and family about this. I feel pathetic. Im sick of hearing all the people on this forum sounding sad and broken. Wake up people you have a life to live. Yea we hurt but thats cuz we are human and we felt. They dont because they are selfish. I dont care anymore if I get her back. I have value just like all you here do. Someone who values me deserves me and I wont discount it for anyone. Being dropped like a hat for no good reason means I was disrespected, not to mention I was also cheated on and lied to. Then she feels sorry for me and hopes Im doing well. Never let anyone feel sorry for you. You should feel sorry for them because they are such an idiot to lose someone who cared about them. So next time you find yourself having a relapse or a down day just saw screw them. If they thought of you only a fraction of how much you think of them now, then this wouldnt have happened the way it did. Just realize what mistakes you made and highlight your strengths so that you can be an even better person when the right person comes by. Stop reading a book that has already been closed, start a new book, a new chapter and be excited about a new possibility. Dont look behind you or down. Just look up and move forward. Just thought I vent a little.
Fufu Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 You are doing well I used to feel anger and frustration of why this happened and will he come back for me, but I can tell you as days go by all these anger and frustration fade. I totally agree with this, Just realize what mistakes you made and highlight your strengths so that you can be an even better person when the right person comes by. Stop reading a book that has already been closed, start a new book, a new chapter and be excited about a new possibility. Dont look behind you or down. Just look up and move forward. We can only look forward and not backward.
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