Answers1979 Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 My Fiancée used my computer earlier this week to check her e-mail. Some time after she left, I went to check my e-mail. We do not have the same e-mail account but we use the same e-mail provider. Consequently, when I went to the e-mail website she was still logged on--apparently she did not log off but just closed the browser. At first, when I was looking at the e-mails it did not register to me I was not looking at my account. It only occurred to me when scanning, I saw her name addressed in the subject line. Long story short, she is actively engaging lesbian affairs with her friends. I'm not cool with, that is not the kind of woman I want raising my children. How do I break it off with her? I did not intentionally go into her e-mail, it was accident. The accident lead me to the information on which I'm basing leaving her. What should I do?
hoping2heal Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Why not do what she couldn't? Tell the truth? Tell her what you found, how you found it, and let her know you no longer are okay with going forward. Having affairs with other people regardless of sexual orientation is not really okay (unless the couple have discussed this beforehand and are cool with it) and it should not be a stretch to her why you want to end things.
spice4life Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Cheating is cheating, no matter what the gender is. Tell her straight up what you found like the other poster said and be honest and end it. It's a deal breaker for you and you ave every right to feel the way you do. That's what I would do in your shoes...cheating is cheating no matter how you slice it.
JasonRules Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Just tell her what you found out and that you're not interested in getting married to a homosexual. And end it. I can't imagine how disgusted you must feel. Even the thought of it is revolting.
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