sweetblubrry Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 (edited) Okay so it has been six weeks of NC with my ex who broke up with me so that he could figure himself out. We still are friends on fb and he posted something that just made me break. I had a bad day and when I got home from work and saw this I lost it. Dear whatever thing is in bloom, I hate you. We are no longer friends. If you had a Facebook page I would defriend you. Please go away. No longer speaking to you ~(his name) ...P.S I am ripping up all of our photos together. I took it as he was seeing someone after we broke up and ripped up all their photos... literally! He told me he couldn't date anyone because he had to work on himself. I was so upset that I texted him asking if he had been seeing someone after we broke up (which was 2 months ago) and if that was what he meant. So guess what he meant? Allergies.. Yes... the plant blooming outside his window. OMG did he set me up to get a rise out of me? We texted for a bit.. i asked him where he had been (haven't seen him at work) and he trailed off (said he was going to bed). OMG i feel so weak and pathetic. He immediately posted afterwards the explanation on his fb under the status to clarify for people. And yes before you even say... he is a nutcase. But that is why I fell in love with him. Edited April 8, 2011 by sweetblubrry
Author sweetblubrry Posted April 8, 2011 Author Posted April 8, 2011 We are both 25... dated for 8 months.
JasonRules Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 We are both 25... dated for 8 months. If an ex girlfriend of mine, whom I broke up with, contacted me and said what you said it would only validate my breaking up with you as the right decision. I think its time to forget about this one and move on.
Author sweetblubrry Posted April 8, 2011 Author Posted April 8, 2011 Ummm we broke up because of him needing to work on himself.... not anything to do with our relationship. And afterwards he was being all flirty at work and trying to keep me me around. And asked me if i wanted help moving and stuff. I did no begging, pleading, or any of that. I have been silent for 6 weeks and took one thing out of context. Thanks for assuming something you don't know anything about. Everyone makes mistakes and I have made far less mistakes than most people on this board.
JasonRules Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Ummm we broke up because of him needing to work on himself.... not anything to do with our relationship. And afterwards he was being all flirty at work and trying to keep me me around. And asked me if i wanted help moving and stuff. I did no begging, pleading, or any of that. I have been silent for 6 weeks and took one thing out of context. Thanks for assuming something you don't know anything about. Everyone makes mistakes and I have made far less mistakes than most people on this board. Your first statement is an oxymoron and paradoxical. If he broke up with you, why are you even bothering to request for an explanation of whether or not he's seeing someone else? He's no longer with you because that's what he wanted. You might not have displayed any begging or pleading, but this action alone shows him you're still waiting for him like a puppy. In fact, you are not even in NC. If you're still friends on FB and checking his page, status', and people who post on his wall you are at best LC and at worst borderline stalking. Have some pride and do the right thing; get out of his life. He broke up with you. Move on and if he contacts you in the future for a reconciliation, then great. If not, it won't matter because you won't even care by then.
Fufu Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 I completely agree with JasonRules. As long as you are finding out what your ex is doing, you are not in NC.
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