ICE911 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Hi, I'm going to try and keep this short and will leave out alot of details. My ex gf broke up with me last October and she still wants me back. This was kind of like an on and off again relationship for about 1 year due to infidelity on my part at the very beginning. I have dated a few people since then, but nothing serious at all. I am on the fence about whether to develop a fresh start with someone else or if I should take a final leap of faith and take my ex gf back and just forget about the people that I have been meeting. I am a guy who has a big heart and hates to hurt anyone. So basically, just trying to figure out which way to go....even though someone will get hurt regardless. To take on new relationship or go with the old for a final try?
Eddie Edirol Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 take on a new relationship. But try not to cheat on the new girl, willya? Without the details i will assume that your ex wants you back because of the void, but still will have a hard time trusting you. if you have the opportunity to start fresh, do it. You cant go back to someone to avoid hurting her.
1784 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 ICE911, It really all depends on what you want to do and why. If you want to be with her for the right reasons (basically because you dig her) then by all means... go ahead. But if you're doing it because you feel guilty or are looking out for what you think SHE wants then please move on. You're not doing anyone any favors by getting back together with her out of guilt or trying to help her hurt less. In the end if you don't do what's best for you then you will wind up hurting her.
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