orangelady Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Did you ever act out of desperation to find your soulmate?
Eclypse Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I was heaps desperate my whole life. I just did my hardest not to show it until I'd landed the fish. A few times it betrayed me and girls lost interest. Not my current one though, she's a keeper
BeginAgain Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Well I am good at indifference because I really don't care. Pretending I care now that will be the real trick.
Nexus One Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Did you ever act out of desperation to find your soulmate? No. What would be an act of desperation in your opinion? (in regards to finding him/her)
dressing up Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Maybe if I had, I would have found an SO by now.
BeginAgain Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 No. What would be an act of desperation in your opinion? (in regards to finding him/her) Going to the playground, unzipping your pants, and yelling "FRESH MEAT! Have at it Ladies!"
ilani Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 No. but i have acted out of desperation to fulfill carnal needs which as a by-product filled a sense of void.
Enchanted Girl Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I've been desperate, yes. I can't stand being single. The first guy I dated after my ex broke-up with me was horrible. My friends were literally all sighing and asking me why I was doing this to myself. D= But then I met my current boyfriend who is wonderful and I am happy.
GottaGetAway Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I'm also curious as to what you consider desperate. I never have been but then again I'm not a huge fan of romantic relationships for the sake of being in a relationship. I guess the most desperate thing I ever did was after a long-term relationship in which the guy had actually bought us a house already (but turned out to be kinda nutso) - I dated my best friend thinking at least I know we'll get along. Selfish as it didn't work out and he had liked me for years. I guess I feel more guilty than desperate about that one.
Cee Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I got pretty desperate towards the end of my 6+ years of being single. But I wasn't so much desperate about getting an LTR, but ending the horrible nightmare of dating uninteresting duds.
Lauriebell82 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 When I was younger I had very low self esteem due to having a weight problem. I would go out with guys who I didn't even like because I thought I couldn't get any better. My most desperate move was to stay with my ex boyfriend for 2.5 years, he lied to me, emotionally abused me, betrayed me, ect. Finally I got up the courage to dump him and met the love of my life, my husband. It took a lot of strength, but I did it.
Crazy Magnet Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 At this moment I would really really like to have a BF. However, I don't see myself engaging in any relationship any time soon. I guess I'm desperate but I refuse to act on it.
threebyfate Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 A) Soulmates don't exist. B) Never been desperate since I'd rather be single than be in a less than ideal (my ideal) relationship. Didn't whine about it when I was single, either.
Ross MwcFan Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 At this moment I would really really like to have a BF. However, I don't see myself engaging in any relationship any time soon. I guess I'm desperate but I refuse to act on it. How come you refuse to act on it?
Crazy Magnet Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 How come you refuse to act on it? To me that would mean throwing myself at the first guy who comes along. That sounds like a horrible idea. I'm proactive about finding someone new in that I'm putting myself out there and meeting lots of new guys, but I'm waiting for the right guy before I get into a relationship. That might be next week, it might be next year. Lord I hope it's not next year...but it will be what it will be.
Hules Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Nope I've always been pretty nonchalant when it comes to dating/relationships I refuse to be in a relationship just to meet the status quo. If someone I like comes along awesome. If I'm by myself, doesn't really bother me. I am often "actively" looking for potential partners but doesn't mean I will hit on everything that has a pulse and looks pretty.
Ross MwcFan Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 To me that would mean throwing myself at the first guy who comes along. That sounds like a horrible idea. I'm proactive about finding someone new in that I'm putting myself out there and meeting lots of new guys, but I'm waiting for the right guy before I get into a relationship. That might be next week, it might be next year. Lord I hope it's not next year...but it will be what it will be. Well, hopefully somthing will happen for you soon.
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