Beautifful Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Help everyone! All comments are WELCOMED! My boyfriend of seven years has been kind of acting weird lately, meaning not with our relationship but hiding his phone, coming home like an hour later one day per week, things of that nature. A friend of ours told me, that they noticed when we were having our couples night, they noticed him texting the name of this girl. I asked him bluntly is something wrong with our relationship, or is he not happy with us? Just to see whats going on.. He said we were perfectly fine and that he loved me more now than ever. BEST THING IN HIS LIFE. His words. I asked him was he seeing someone or etc, he said no, I asked him about the particular name, he acted like he never heard the name is his life. I said ok and left it alone. This morning, we were having our normal morning, nice, and happily. And he asked me to do something with his cellular as to plug it in. Well I was plugging in and I hit a button and I see his call log, and long and behold it was the same person our friends said that he denied. Well he asked me to lay with him and I did, as I laid next to him, I clicked the button and told him in a nice tone and not angrily at all. "So you do talk to her" and left it at that, I kissed him on his cheek! It took him two minutes, but he was completely upset- he called me a LIAR, A SNEAKY person. HE CANT BELIEVE WHAT I DID. HE CANT BELIEVE WHAT I SAID. What a SNEAKY person I am, and this is ridiculous and to NOT talk to him AT ALL. me: CONFUSED FACE him:you are sneaky and i dont want to talk to you at all, maybe for even a couple of days, I cant believe you (we live together!!) , all i have is my privacy of my phone and you invaded it. YOU ARE SO SNEAKY. Why is he so mad at me??
d'Arthez Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 He is mad because he was caught in an inappropriate lie, and that is assuming the best.
PegNosePete Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 He is angry because you BUSTED him. I'm sorry to say that he is definitely cheating with this girl. Often when someone gets caught out they turn it around, blame-shifting, saying that you invaded his privacy and snooped on him. It is turning the argument around so that he does not have to discuss the real problem any more. The best defense is a good offense and all that. Don't let him pull this BS on you.
DollyGirl12 Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Well, not sure if he's actually physically cheating, but he's not being honest. My ex was famous for turning everything around on me and making me feel like I was the one to blame, when he was the one with all the inappropriate behavior. Please be careful because this is not a good sign that he is making this in to your fault. Best Wishes!!
Melocoton Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Sounds fishy to me. I always let anyone go through my phone, there is nothing to hide. You have all the evidence and are asking us.. you need to ask him.
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