SteveC80 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I don't know where you live but I live in NYC so I feel very confident that my sample size is considerably larger than yours and I rarely if ever see a truly good looking man with an unattractive woman. On the other hand, I see slim, pretty women with fat, ugly men all the time walking the street sof Manhattan and other boroughs. You have no actual experience with women and are therefore in no position to make absurd generalizations about them. I live in the same city and see claims of women on here all the time that they see fat men with hot women on a everyday basis its such horse bs:laugh: you guys watch too many fat guy skinny women sitcoms Most couples you see are pretty evenly matched
musemaj11 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Hello, I'm a somewhat above-average woman who's happy with an average guy. Explain that. I feel sorry for your boyfriend. If I knew a woman Im with thinks that Im average looking, I would be devastated.
SteveC80 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I feel sorry for your boyfriend. If I knew a woman Im with thinks that Im average looking, I would be devastated. Chances are shes with somebody whos equal to her looks wise and is fine looking but for you to be good looking to a women you need a laundry list of traits "Average" to women means not 6'3 no six pack abs and doesnt look like a model
Author LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 Chances are shes with somebody whos equal to her looks wise and is fine looking but for you to be good looking to a women you need a laundry list of traits Probably very true. Women are pickier than men. Then complain about men being pickier. The female responses in this thread confirms that!
musemaj11 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 "Average" to women means not 6'3 no six pack abs and doesnt look like a model And doesnt have a Baby Benz.
lizwashere Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I live in the same city and see claims of women on here all the time that they see fat men with hot women on a everyday basis its such horse bs:laugh: you guys watch too many fat guy skinny women sitcoms Most couples you see are pretty evenly matched I did not say hot, I said pretty, slim women with fat, sloppy looking guys with their shirts barely fitting over their huge bellies. Anybody who walks along 5th Avenue, especially in Midtown sees evidence of this every single day.
SteveC80 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I did not say hot, I said pretty, slim women with fat, sloppy looking guys with their shirts barely fitting over their huge bellies. Anybody who walks along 5th Avenue, especially in Midtown sees evidence of this every single day. I also see skinny guys with fat women doesnt mean its the norm nor is the example youre using Aas i said most couples are pretty evenly matched or at least near the same level of attractiveness
Author LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 I live in Ohio, and don't see this phenomenon. I see all the nerds being picked on by the jocks, and the pretty girls going after the jocks and ignoring the uglier guys. One example is when I went into a store a year ago. A guy there, who obviously had autism and also was massively overweight, was trying to talk to this pretty coworker of his. She was acting all bitchy, and walked away from him while he was trying to talk to her.
sweetjasmine Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I feel sorry for your boyfriend. If I knew a woman Im with thinks that Im average looking, I would be devastated. He knows he's not Brad Pitt. He also knows I'm extremely attracted to him. Poor guy, having a partner who can't keep her hands off him.
lizwashere Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Probably very true. Women are pickier than men. Then complain about men being pickier. The female responses in this thread confirms that! Of course because given a choice between a Victorias Secret Supermodel and some fat chick with cellulite you would of course take the latter because you don't care about looks. After reading theses posts it makes perfect sense to me why you're alone - and it has nothing to do with looks and everything to do with your miserable personalities. Women are able to see right through you and therefore want nothing to do with you, and I say good for them.
Author LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/31845266/ns/today-relationships/ Tell this guy that looks don't matter to women. When not being pelted with stones, he was cursed at, spit on, and treated like crap...all because of his weight. Oh, and he was a 30 something virgin as well. You can't tell me that it's not all connected somehow?
thatdog Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I think the girls/guys that set themselves up for this criticism by complaining about 'ugly' people do so because their view of dating is very simplistic. I'd wager most of them only get approached in bars and other places where you don't or barely know the person approaching you. I almost exclusively date friends or friends of friends and as such generally get to know those girls fairly well before i even think about asking them out. Due to this I have had intense crushes on and sometimes dated girls that physically were nowhere near my 'type'. Similarly, I'm a big guy (i don't think i've weighed below 230pound since high school) yet i've managed to date at least 3 girls that would definitely be considered 9s or 10s. They sure as hell weren't just attracted to my looks. Sure there are some girls/guys that focus on looks to the near exclusion of everything else but it shouldn't be made as a blanket statement. If you want more proof go have a look at Cate Blanchett's husband. She's way out of his league even now, but back when they hooked up he was a big fat fatty.
sweetjasmine Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Tell this guy that looks don't matter to women. When not being pelted with stones, he was cursed at, spit on, and treated like crap...all because of his weight. Where in the article does it say that it was only women who were horribly abusing this man? How many 600 pound women have you asked out on a date?
Author LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 How many 600 pound women have you asked out on a date? None. I weigh 210 pounds, and am 5'10". I would date someone who was the same height and weight. My point is that women don't want to date me, because I'm not good looking. If I looked like Johnny Depp, I'm sure I wouldn't have a problem dating. Women are shallow.
lizwashere Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Where in the article does it say that it was only women who were horribly abusing this man? How many 600 pound women have you asked out on a date? None, because he's a man and therefore entitled to be with only beautiful, sexy women - Fat chicks need not apply.
SteveC80 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 He knows he's not Brad Pitt. He also knows I'm extremely attracted to him. Poor guy, having a partner who can't keep her hands off him. And if you overheard him say im going out with an average looking women but beautiful on the inside im sure you would love it:rolleyes:
Author LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 You know what? I'm going to go to the gym, lose this weight, and build up some muscle. And then when you women make googly eyes at me, I'm going to treat you the way you treated me. See if you like it.
sweetjasmine Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 My point is that women don't want to date me, because I'm not good looking. Honestly, LITM, your attitude is unattractive. You've convinced yourself that you're right and that everyone else is wrong and that women are terrible, shallow creatures who should date you out of a sense of pity or obligation. That's unattractive even if you look like Johnny Depp.
thatdog Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 http://today.msnbc.msn.com/id/31845266/ns/today-relationships/ Tell this guy that looks don't matter to women. When not being pelted with stones, he was cursed at, spit on, and treated like crap...all because of his weight. Oh, and he was a 30 something virgin as well. You can't tell me that it's not all connected somehow? Well that's a little different. Someone who is so overweight they can't perform normal daily activities is obviously going to be a turn of not just cos of their looks but the implication that they wouldn't be able to leave the house. btw - lol at 'I finally decided I really needed to do something about my weight so I CALLED MY LOCAL TV STATION'
lizwashere Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Honestly, LITM, your attitude is unattractive. You've convinced yourself that you're right and that everyone else is wrong and that women are terrible, shallow creatures who should date you out of a sense of pity or obligation. That's unattractive even if you look like Johnny Depp. Totally agree and unless he gets a personality transplant to go along with the weight loss, he still won't get any women, especially the hot women he obsesses about. I've met men like this in real life, supposed "nice guys" who turn out to be disturbed, boderline sociopaths.
musemaj11 Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 How could you healthily lose 401lbs over six months?
thatdog Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 You know what? I'm going to go to the gym, lose this weight, and build up some muscle. . Probably a good idea man. I don't think that alone is going to be getting you girls but given your apparent focus on physical appearance, getting buff would probably do wonders for your self esteem. which in turn would also help make you more attractive to the opposite sex.
thatdog Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 Totally agree and unless he gets a personality transplant to go along with the weight loss, he still won't get any women, especially the hot women he obsesses about. I've met men like this in real life, supposed "nice guys" who turn out to be disturbed, boderline sociopaths. Sadly it's usually their continued poor treatment at the hands of other girls that made them this way. btw musemaj11 - that was 410pounds in 26 months... still insane though.
Author LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 7, 2011 Author Posted April 7, 2011 I'm going to try to see things from other people's perspectives. But honestly, I am fed up of being lonely and being a virgin. I just want somebody.
WTRanger Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I'm going to try to see things from other people's perspectives. But honestly, I am fed up of being lonely and being a virgin. I just want somebody. You get shot down because you have a really awful outlook on yourself. No women is going to want to date you because you wouldn't even date yourself. You have zero confidence in yourself and you hate women. This all comes out when you talk to a girl and it makes you look like a spiteful troll. Heck, you even turn off women over the internet on a random forum! How pathetic is that? You only see what you want to see in life because your hate filled outlook on women will only let you see the hot girls with the supposed hotter guys. You skew the truth better than Fox News. And what is your definition of an "average" guy and girl? Everyone has their own definition of average, so what's yours?
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