Josh Freeman Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 My girlfriend is awesome when we're together. She is affectionate, kind, loving and compassionate towards me. However when we are apart I feel ignored, like an after thought. We usually go 4 days without seeing each other. In-between the days that we see each other we only communicate via text. In general she won't text me unless I text her, although she's getting better about that.When I text her she usually just ends the conversation AsaP even when she's not doing anything. The thing that has me most upset is an incident that happened last week. I asked her what would be a good day to hang out, she said Wednesday. This was on Monday. It was the day before and the plans were not set in stone. I texted her 4 x throughout the day saying things like I miss you, are we still on is 10:30 ok? I got no response back... I went there anyways because it had been 5 days since I seen her. It turns out she was with her friend in her house all night. The thing that really bothered me is when I'm with her if she really needs to confirm plans with friends she would not hesitate to ask me if she could confirm plans with a friend. Or if I go to the bathroom or leave for a second she'll whip her phone out and start texting. Now the last thing is I keep inviting her to do things with me and she keeps blowing me off. For example she wanted to see some cheesy horror flick. I said I would go with her but she said "oh I'll just go with my movie buddy, I'm sure you don't want to see such a bad movie". Or she kept saying she needed a job after she lost hers and I said why don't we have a job application day... She said that it was ok, but two weeks later she has one with her friend. I feel almost ignored, like I'm just an after though in her life.
utterer of lies Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I feel almost ignored, like I'm just an after though in her life. Because you are.
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