Mme. Chaucer Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Why even bother dividing things up by gender? "Bad" is gender neutral. Sure, you can find "what's good for the goose" mentality. You can find guys justifying their cheating because the wife "let herself go." It has nothing to do with gender; it's all just rationalization. Most people who do stuff that they know is wrong look for a way to rationalize it. Like you, Woggle. You know it's wrong to talk trash about women but you indulge in it anyway; you use your bad experiences with your mother and your ex to rationalize it.
Owl Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 I hope everyone realizes I'm not trash talking anyone. I'm not saying that women are worse than men, nor men worse than women. All I was pointing out was that women tend to bond together and SUPPORT each other in their choices whereas men tend to expect each other to "deal with it" on their own. My apologies if my posts or opinions offended anyone...certainly not my intention.
ComputerJock Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 I think you hit the nail on the head, cheating is neutral gender, bad is bad weither male or female.
jthorne Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 There hasn't but if there ever was one I bet she would get a ton of support. Not from all women but she would have her supporters. Sure, people will find support somewhere. Even pedophiles will find support somewhere from someone. It's not right, but it happens. Woggle, you really have to stop this. There's a point when you cease to be a victim and become a volunteer. You continuing to let your experiences with your mom and ex affect you are making you a volunteer.
Flgirl44 Posted April 9, 2011 Posted April 9, 2011 Morally and ethically - cheating is equally wrong for both genders. Biologically/Anatomically speaking, a female has more of a chance of catching STDs from sex than a male. Therefore more chance of endangering herself and SO(and perhaps unborn child). In a biological sense a cheating woman would be more "wrong" than the male.
TMCM Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Morally and ethically - cheating is equally wrong for both genders. Couldn't agree more. Biologically/Anatomically speaking, a female has more of a chance of catching STDs from sex than a male. Therefore more chance of endangering herself and SO(and perhaps unborn child). In a biological sense a cheating woman would be more "wrong" than the male. Also more likely to get pregnant by her lover and trying to pass it off as her husband's child with the husband none the wiser.
Author Woggle Posted April 10, 2011 Author Posted April 10, 2011 I wonder if any women here think this is right to do this. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3337206&postcount=23
bentnotbroken Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 I wonder if any women here think this is right to do this. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3337206&postcount=23 You already know the answer to that. The women who post on your threads don't think it is right and the one's who find it okay won't post or admit it. So how will you get accurate numbers? You won't so you only torture yourself with the generalizations.
xxoo Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 I wonder if any women here think this is right to do this. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3337206&postcount=23 No, of course it isn't right. But there will always be some women who think it is ok--whether they are lashing out, immature, or whatever. Just like there will always be men who think it is ok to cheat. That's never going to change. Accept it, control what you can (the threads you read, the people you engage with), and enjoy your happy marriage
dreamingoftigers Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Woggle: with your quotes can you see why you have trouble with women? I really simply being hateful ...[towards women]...[it] is the answer. Hatred... [of].. all women. When a man is going through it through it really does feel like that. All of womankind was ganging up on me. men... obviously have been through hell ....[all because of women]. There have been times here when a woman comes on here in pain and I have actually been sympathetic because she is [less than a man]. The ones I have an issue with are women who act like men .. deserve [fair treatment]. They are the ones I have an issue with. men feel... we ....deserve [to rule over everything and women be our subservient slaves]. Women here have ...[not]... been very sympathetic to my issues. Women ...[are]..the enemy. I [am] kind just to get something from somebody. [they] become bitter. I don't expect a cookie but I [do hate women.] I ... condone the generalizing misogynist threads This is what I mean when I say that men and women have vastly different experiences. The hatred goes both ways on this board yet people only notice it when it is against them.[My hatred is the correct one. Women are to be hated for they smell of flowers and have vicious teeth of evil.] You have to understand that misandry is much more suble than misogyny. [Women] deserve to be cheated on and you see it in the threads where a woman who is blatantly wrong will [not] get sympathy a man will .... get. It might suck to hear your gender generalized but people who actually mistreat others make me much more [happy if it is a woman being mistreated]. Men venting really hurts nobody [unless it is a] women [and she deserves it]. Women just don't see [our superiority]but is glaringly obviuous to men. I apologize about that. What did you think about what I said though. I.... condone men who play women. [For they deserve every rumble of irritation aimed at them.] He sucks as a person but in the end he is the one gaining the most. I don't like him but I hate the fact that people like him get the most rewards in our society. [He was nice to a woman once and for that he deserves to be cast out!] I don't want her but I sure would not want to be in her boyfriend's position.[For she is woman, therefore evil!] I don't remember who it was but I remember a thread where a woman was cheating on her husband. I want to say that.... all women do this. There are plenty of women who are [not] fair on this board but it turned my stomach to see people acting like she was [ever to be considered a human being again, for she is a woman]. I [hate] women. [They are] garbage. See, see! You are a woman hater!! It's all your fault! I wonder if any women here think this is right to do this. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3337206&postcount=23 No, I think that it is ridiculous, foolish, immature, selfish, risky and brain-dead. But who knows, maybe I am completely off the mark with this one.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 I hope everyone realizes that that last post was totally a joke. Woggle did not seriously say those things, I edited out some of his old posts and cut out some words (...) and the additions in [square brackets] are all mine. Woggle to my knowledge is not a hater.
Duckduckgoose Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 Its not justifiable regardless of what kind of gonads you were born with. Male or female, the act of cheating is despicable and gender doesn't mean **** in infidelity.
Untouchable_Fire Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 When I talk to some people and I go some boards I get the feeling that many people think women are justified in cheating. They have a what's good for the goose is good for the gander mentality. Either that or they always blame the man. Am I just being paranoid again or does it seem like many women really see nothing wrong with women cheating? The same women who tell you it's wrong for both will be basically high fiveing female cheaters an hour later. Eat, Pray, Love and that Julie/Julia author both show that women support other women cheating. Hell... they are making a profession out of it. Cheat on your husband... write a book about it that other women spend over $200 million to read and watch... to make them feel better about their own cheating. Men just don't stand up for each other anymore, because half of them want to be the guy your wife is cheating on you with. Suck!
Author Woggle Posted April 11, 2011 Author Posted April 11, 2011 The same women who tell you it's wrong for both will be basically high fiveing female cheaters an hour later. Eat, Pray, Love and that Julie/Julia author both show that women support other women cheating. Hell... they are making a profession out of it. Cheat on your husband... write a book about it that other women spend over $200 million to read and watch... to make them feel better about their own cheating. Men just don't stand up for each other anymore, because half of them want to be the guy your wife is cheating on you with. Suck! And they wonder why we defend porn and strip clubs so much.
Untouchable_Fire Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 And they wonder why we defend porn and strip clubs so much. We don't support guys who cheat at all. Clinton got turned into a joke and just barely kept from being impeached... even after most people sympathized with him. Woods is toast and will only regain favor on his own merit... plus his wife's act of domestic violence has been treated as "justice". Imagine if a man had hit his cheating wife with a golf club? My theory is that a man needs to be extremely selective when trusting women. Even then he should always assume the worst in situations.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 The same women who tell you it's wrong for both will be basically high fiveing female cheaters an hour later. Eat, Pray, Love and that Julie/Julia author both show that women support other women cheating. Hell... they are making a profession out of it! Just for the record..... Those books/movies.... I hated reading The Bridges of Madison County. I bought it at a used book store because it was really popular not long before, the whole thing just turned my stomach and I really really hated how they glamourized it, even her children did in the book. I think that only happened because $$$$$
dreamingoftigers Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 Just for the record..... Those books/movies.... I hated reading The Bridges of Madison County. I bought it at a used book store because it was really popular not long before, the whole thing just turned my stomach and I really really hated how they glamourized it, even her children did in the book. I think that only happened because $$$$$ Since I was a little kid seeing people cheat in movies etc. Made my stomach turn. I really hate it when they just their it casually into movies like "oh hey, it's Wednesday, time to go screw my girlfriend." I don't know how people can be so okay with it, at all. Or act like it is the greatest love since Romeo and Juliet since they are acting so stupid.
bentnotbroken Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 The same women who tell you it's wrong for both will be basically high fiveing female cheaters an hour later. Eat, Pray, Love and that Julie/Julia author both show that women support other women cheating. Hell... they are making a profession out of it. Cheat on your husband... write a book about it that other women spend over $200 million to read and watch... to make them feel better about their own cheating. Men just don't stand up for each other anymore, because half of them want to be the guy your wife is cheating on you with. Suck! :lmao::lmao::lmao:Any more fairy tales you want to use to prove that. Funny.....not:sick:
linwood Posted April 11, 2011 Posted April 11, 2011 When I talk to some people and I go some boards I get the feeling that many people think women are justified in cheating. They have a what's good for the goose is good for the gander mentality. I would have to say that I see this attitude in many women. It doesn`t even seem to matter if the "Gander" has been feathering another nest or not.
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