rkn Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I'm newly broken up after a 7 year relationship (I broke it off with her). The long short of it is that we grew distant for a few years and I fell hard for another gal, a mutual friend. We've been in a push and pull for a few months, contact, no contact. We tried to make things right many times, but any time we'd get together, things from the past would eventually creep up and ruin any prospect we'd have of fixing things. This last episode though seems to have driven a stake between us, and we both finally said we want nothing to do with each other, though not nearly that nicely. I'm just wondering if strict NC is the way to go here, I'm really terrible when it comes to these things, because it is in my nature to clear the air and make sure everything and everyone is all right, and I feel extremely bad about things that were said to and by me. I feel really bad about our mutual friendships. But I also feel that I really need to just not speak to anyone within our circle of friends.
Sake Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Yes and no. Yes because it seems like shes going to go on no contact soon so you should follow her lead. No because you should leave on good terms and not make her have a grudge over you and such, but thats only if you really care about her.
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