downinthedumps Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 We had big fight and our first on the weekend and lasted a few days. I couldnt let it go which was wrong but I was hurt. We have been getting back on track the last few days, lots of i love yous and talk of the future, me moving there etc again. Then i mentioned seeing each other this weekend and he hesitated and asked him why and said he would 'like' to see me but really doesnt want to fight again. We are in a LDR and only see each other on weekends and really want to make up, i dont want to see him if hes not totally comfortable and excited about seeing me. Should i not go and see him and how can i get him to drop his guard? All i want to do is hug him, kiss him and have some fun and get back to the way we were, im scared of losing him.
WorldIsYours Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 We had big fight and our first on the weekend and lasted a few days. I couldnt let it go which was wrong but I was hurt. We have been getting back on track the last few days, lots of i love yous and talk of the future, me moving there etc again. Then i mentioned seeing each other this weekend and he hesitated and asked him why and said he would 'like' to see me but really doesnt want to fight again. We are in a LDR and only see each other on weekends and really want to make up, i dont want to see him if hes not totally comfortable and excited about seeing me. Should i not go and see him and how can i get him to drop his guard? All i want to do is hug him, kiss him and have some fun and get back to the way we were, im scared of losing him. Just let things cool down a bit, that's all. After people who love each other get into a fight they may need a little space. Just wait a while.
Author downinthedumps Posted April 6, 2011 Author Posted April 6, 2011 I think you are right, I just hope and pray this makes him come around, im petrified he is thinking about breaking up with me even though i didnt start the fight. Is there anything else I can do??
WorldIsYours Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I think you are right, I just hope and pray this makes him come around, im petrified he is thinking about breaking up with me even though i didnt start the fight. Is there anything else I can do?? Just do you for now.
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