KristaD Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Made the mistake of finding this idiot blog and now I'm fuming: http://thepenisdoctor.wordpress.com/2011/03/31/the-problem-with-your-penis/ Why do guys like this exist? Am I wrong to think that there can't be a lot of women that enjoy this type of arrogance and lack of respect. Sorry about the angry first post. I normally just lurk on here reading the generally good relationship and dating advice but this got me steamed enough to create an account. Krista D
gaius Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I almost fell for that and clicked on it! Bad naughty spammer.
Author KristaD Posted April 6, 2011 Author Posted April 6, 2011 Really isn't spam, I swear, he calls himself "the penis doctor", here's a quote: "This is about banging a woman of depth and substance that smells weasels a mile away. This is about converting hot looking lesbians into penis worshipers. Now are we going to use her childhood traumas against her? Of course. Are we going to turn her on with a little bit of physical force? Only when the timing is right. Is there lying involved? Not if you believe it’s true." Doesn't look like he is selling anything either, just a nutjob. Krista D
musemaj11 Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Lol, he is so right about how the penis doesnt care about the face. :laugh:
Author KristaD Posted April 6, 2011 Author Posted April 6, 2011 Oh, I guess you make a good point. Sorry, my intentions were to alert other women of stuff like this, my apologies if it has come across badly. thatdog: he might be joking a bit but there is a complete lack of respect and sinister attitude about women there, e.g, "physical force", why do you think joking like this is ok? Krista D
BeginAgain Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 A "forced" sex fantasy is the number one fantasy among women. This does get some coming up with the glib assessment women want to be raped, but actually women want to be physically controlled by the male with their consent. I guess to a woman it shows the greatest degree of interest when a man takes charge even over her body but there are of course limits to this. The techniques necessary to woo women aren't pretty if the logical basis behind them was brought out into the light but they work. Women are very responsive to them. You have to understand the mating game developed out of a hostile, primordial environment and not a judeo-christian morality. Men can care and do care more about women than women believe and more than women actually care about us which is why men have a much harder time coping with breakups. Yet the way in which we must go about showing that we care about you isn't completely suave and sophisticated but more barbaric and uncouth.
somedude81 Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Thanks for the link Krista. It was an interesting read. I'll be sure to read more of his articles.
Titania22 Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Thanks for the link Krista. It was an interesting read. I'll be sure to read more of his articles. *facepalm*
thatdog Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Oh, I guess you make a good point. Sorry, my intentions were to alert other women of stuff like this, my apologies if it has come across badly. thatdog: he might be joking a bit but there is a complete lack of respect and sinister attitude about women there, e.g, "physical force", why do you think joking like this is ok? Krista D Unfortunately the old adage 'it's funny cos it's true' is IMO correct. Most good humor has an element of truth to it. I think most guys who read this will find it amusing cos whilst outlandish, it addresses some of our biggest issues, frustrations and insecurities about what is required to attract a woman. Most women read this and are shocked and appalled because it says a lot of things about the sexual nature of women in general that aren't flattering. But most people who have had a reasonable amount of dating experience already know that there is little bit of truth in everything this guy is saying. There is a reason I have friends who are not that good looking (one weighs almost 300 pounds), never managed to hold together a LTR, but are well into triple digits with the number of girls they've slept with. If you have the stomach for it, it is a lot easier to get a woman to want to sleep with you than it is to figure out how to get them to both love and respect you (and still want to sleep with you instead of being bffs)
Mr.Cairo Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Thanks for the link Krista. It was an interesting read. I'll be sure to read more of his articles. And you wonder why women aren't interested in you. Who is blinder? The man who was born without eyes, or the man who has the wall in front of him and goes at it still
somedude81 Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 You people are totally overreacting. Krista, is the only reason you posted the link was because he said "physical force?" What do you think he means by it? And you wonder why women aren't interested in you. And your argument is what? Some of advice and points he wants to accomplish is actually decent. " So while you think it’s fine to wear white socks with dark colored pants and cool to drink beer at a bar, your poor penis keeps getting frustrated with the distance that will forever be between you and that perfect ass. Come on, wake up! Stop spending money going to bars to meet women and end up talking to your friends all night while the vaginas have no clue you’re there." "So unless you own a hedge fund and willing to pony up for girlfriend-experiences or willing to accept an average life of frustration with a woman that is only going to get less attractive by the minute (please don’t), you need help." "These idiotic looking losers with a t-shirt and baseball cap on that ooze confidence in front of their open-mouthed Dungeons and Dragons addicted crowd give you nothing more than a chance at success with a sex deprived Sarah Jessica Parker look-alike or a marginally attractive attention whore." "This isn’t about getting a woman’s phone number or getting her into bed for a few nights. This is about getting the woman that you want to unconditionally submit all of herself to you. This is about banging a woman of depth and substance that smells weasels a mile away. " Also his blog is fairly new and hasn't even really said what his methods are. Sure he sounds crass, so what?
Richard Friedman Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 http://roissy.wordpress.com/ Roissy is where it's at if you want the truth of the universe.
Thedude22 Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Love is a battlefield and these tactics are scorched earth. Effective, ruthless, yet lacking in humanity. I wish I had the lack of a soul to use these kind of tactics that I know, alas I still see women as human beings so I am doomed to being a third rate "player".
BeginAgain Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Love is a battlefield and these tactics are scorched earth. Effective, ruthless, yet lacking in humanity. I wish I had the lack of a soul to use these kind of tactics that I know, alas I still see women as human beings so I am doomed to being a third rate "player". Well I lack humanity and I don't see women as human but still I can't use them. I don't have the recklessness to get over my discomfort to execute these tactics. I even wince when couples play wrestle because I am worried she'll get hurt.
Taramere Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 (edited) Love is a battlefield and these tactics are scorched earth. Effective, ruthless, yet lacking in humanity. I wish I had the lack of a soul to use these kind of tactics that I know, alas I still see women as human beings so I am doomed to being a third rate "player". Maybe things are really different in the US, and perhaps men who behave like dicks or pimps are lauded and respected. I tend to think, though, that it's more of a class thing than a geographical one. It seems as though the player ideology is all about mimicking the behaviour of pimps. If a woman has really low expectations out of life, then she might be drawn to somebody who can do a convincing impersonation of a pimp...because that role is associated with having street smarts, having various contacts to get drugs from and providing physical protection to women who are turning tricks. A kind, caring and polite guy who lacks the street smarts and contacts to get a woman in that situation what she needs isn't going to be a lot of use to her. I've sometimes had prostitutions as clients in the past, and tended to find them really quite sweet and caring people...with regard to their kids. When it came to men, it seemed more businesslike. The man was a useful supply of physical protection and/or drugs and contacts....unless she was at or near rock bottom, when the pimp has extracted most of what there is to be extracted out of her and she will perhaps content herself with the companionship of a man who is in a similar broken situation. Edited April 6, 2011 by Taramere
Emilia Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Made the mistake of finding this idiot blog and now I'm fuming: http://thepenisdoctor.wordpress.com/2011/03/31/the-problem-with-your-penis/ Why do guys like this exist? Am I wrong to think that there can't be a lot of women that enjoy this type of arrogance and lack of respect. Sorry about the angry first post. I normally just lurk on here reading the generally good relationship and dating advice but this got me steamed enough to create an account. Krista D not sure why you find that particular article offensive, it isn't any different from what I read here from time to time. Seeking validation by being noticed by people out of your league. Nothing new
Mr.Cairo Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Well I lack humanity and I don't see women as human but still I can't use them. I don't have the recklessness to get over my discomfort to execute these tactics. I even wince when couples play wrestle because I am worried she'll get hurt. So you won't mind if a guy bigger than you comes along, and beats you to death? Since you are not human and all?
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