Duckduckgoose Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I would rather have much sex with someone devoted to me. Yes that too. Twisting my words woman! Literally lol:p
Duckduckgoose Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Actually i read a psychology article this morning that stated that women are generally turned on by men that they WANT to be devoted to them. Once the devotion is established, the woman may still be madly in love with their mate but their sexual desire for them will almost always flag pretty rapidly. Those same women however, will usually start to re-experience increased desire if another man pays attention to them EVEN IF THEY LOVE THEIR PARTNER AND HAVE NO INTENTION OF CHEATING. Hence why there so many perfectly good guys on here all the time whining about how their gf/wife never/rarely has sex with them anymore. Link article please.
donnamaybe Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Your friend's MW is a real piece of work, isn't she? My honey doesn't cheat, and I love him all the more for his goodness. I find that VERY sexy!
dreamingoftigers Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Yes that too. Twisting my words woman! Literally lol:p It's all for a good cause! Woggle, my husband stepped out the first time and it didn't turn me on whatsoever, it put me on a floor for six hours virtually unable to move I was in so much pain and shock. Our sex life which was low at the time due to his cheating took an even worse dive and is at that point DOA as of 2 months ago. (approximately)
Ross PK Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 My friend was telling me about his MW and he was saying that the reason she is cheating is because she no longer sees her husband as sexual. She met him when he was a player and convinced him to settle down and now that he is domesticated as she puts it she no longer feels attraction towards him. She actually wishes he would cheat because that would show he still has some sexuality in him. Please tell me this is not a widely held view. Wouldn't ****ing her and doing other sexual stuff with her show that he's still got some sexuality in him? Not sure why he'd have to cheat.
Author Woggle Posted April 6, 2011 Author Posted April 6, 2011 I think that maybe she gets turned on by cheaters and players. My friend tells me that he has never in his life had a woman so eager to please him and do him with such gusto. He never had anything close to this in any of his committed relationships. She says most married women she knows secretly agree with her as well. It is good to read in this thread that some genuinely like faithful and honest men and appreciate us and judging from who answered I know it is not just lip service.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I think that maybe she gets turned on by cheaters and players. My friend tells me that he has never in his life had a woman so eager to please him and do him with such gusto. He never had anything close to this in any of his committed relationships. She says most married women she knows secretly agree with her as well. It is good to read in this thread that some genuinely like faithful and honest men and appreciate us and judging from who answered I know it is not just lip service. If MW is half as aggressive as he claims, she probably has either some passive friends who are like " yeah yeah me too" or some similarly aggressive friends and they all egg each other on.
threebyfate Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Here's how it works, Woggle. Emotionally unstable men and women enjoy emotionally unstable relationships since it feeds their need for drama. The rest of us enjoy healthy relationship dynamics and avoid drama queens of either gender.
DollyGirl12 Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I ended things with my ex bf because he was online looking to hook up with others. Not sure if he had at some point, but just the thought of it and possibility of it was there. Quite honestly, I found it repulsive.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I ended things with my ex bf because he was online looking to hook up with others. Not sure if he had at some point, but just the thought of it and possibility of it was there. Quite honestly, I found it repulsive. Same thing for me in regards to the online stuff. I saw my husband as a dirty tainted slut after that. Not a good thing to have judgments about people but that is how I felt.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I think that maybe she gets turned on by cheaters and players. My friend tells me that he has never in his life had a woman so eager to please him and do him with such gusto. He never had anything close to this in any of his committed relationships. She says most married women she knows secretly agree with her as well. It is good to read in this thread that some genuinely like faithful and honest men and appreciate us and judging from who answered I know it is not just lip service. OKay imagine this setup. You really want your wife to find you attractive so you decide to take the cheating plunge. BUT in order for her to find you attractive, she has to KNOW about you going outside of the marriage. Your 5th anniversary: "Honey, I went to the bar, got together with this girl, shagged her, isn't that great!?!? Happy Anniversary!! Let's get down and give you some awesome sex! Don't kid yourself, I AM the man." I just don't see it working out as well as planned, maybe stick with your other plans.....
Enchanted Girl Posted April 7, 2011 Posted April 7, 2011 I think that maybe she gets turned on by cheaters and players. My friend tells me that he has never in his life had a woman so eager to please him and do him with such gusto. He never had anything close to this in any of his committed relationships. She says most married women she knows secretly agree with her as well. It is good to read in this thread that some genuinely like faithful and honest men and appreciate us and judging from who answered I know it is not just lip service. I just want to add to what a bunch of other people are saying. Seriously . . . . The best sex my boyfriend and I had this month was when we talked and were emotional with one another and told each other we loved each other repeatedly and it led to some passionate sex. The worst was the one day I pushed him off me and said no because I thought he was flirting with some other girl and I got extremely jealous and angry. I found him physically repulsive. Because cheating or even flirting with other women, turns me off a whole bunch. I want a man who is faithful and loves me and that I can depend on. Nothing is sexier.
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