BelleShelle Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Hello, I have been browsing this forum for a while, and have decided to run my current issues by you folks. A little more than a month ago I started talking to this guy I met on OKC. After a few messages, we agreed to meet for a date at Starbucks, which happened a month ago. It was a great date, we conversed and really hit it off. We have a lot in common (both are elementary school teachers) and we live close to each other. Since then we've been hanging out about twice a week. We've even slept together twice (and by slept together, I mean that exactly--we slept in the same bed, but did not have sex.) We've fooled around a lot, but haven't had sex (I am still a virgin and he knows this.) Anyway, for the past week he's been a little distant, not texting me as much. If I text him, he does respond in a timely fashion (except the other night, where I texted him around 9 and he didn't respond until early the next morning because he said he was up late working). We were supposed to hang out on Friday night, but he never showed up and early the next morning he texted and said his phone had died and I was probably asleep by the time he would've been able to come. We texted again some today (I had to initiate it again) but he was receptive and joking with, and when I brought up us hanging out again he said "Soon!" I'm not really sure what to do, as I hate this in limbo feeling. I feel that he is interested in me and likes me, but it seems he isn't quite as interested in hanging out with me as he once was. I don't want to come on too strong and constantly text him and keep asking him out, as I don't want to be appear desperate, but the last guy I was interested in (a guy I met on match) stopped talking to me because he said I didn't appear as interested in him and he thought I only wanted to be friends. I don't want to fall into that trap with this guy, and I really want to let him know I really like him and would want us to be more than just friends or hang-out buddies. We have talked about relationships and he asked why I wasn't in one (because he said I was perfect and he didn't understand why I wasn't snatched up yet). Is it too soon to be talking about this, since we've only been seeing each other for a month? Sorry this is so long and I welcome any advice you have to give!
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