notanangel Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 I recently moved away from my roommate. He was male and rented a room to me in his home. He had been friends with my boyfriend who passed away and I was friends with his wife who passed away. When I moved in I felt alittle uncomfortable because he was very intrusive and had no regards for my privacy. Barging in rooms with doors closed opening my mail, listening to my phone calls etc. He picked fights with all my friends during the time that I lived there. I came to the feeling he was jealous of anyone he perceived took time from him. He even accused my kids of stealing rings from him that he found later no apology at all. It got so bad a few weeks ago I up and moved he went to both my parttime jobs and started nasty rumors about me that I was an alcoholic and had different men over all the time. He even straight out asked one of my friends if we were having sex. I took the first apartment I could find that I could afford to get away from him. Now I'm truly afraid of him. I would have never expected him to stoop this low. How do I get over this fear? and what should I do to protect myself. I don't avocate violence but since I wouldn't have sex with him he got really weird and is scaring me. Link to post Share on other sites
yekcoh Posted April 5, 2004 Share Posted April 5, 2004 I don't know where you live, but if you're in the states, I would file a restraining order, especially if you have kids!!!! He sounds a little dangerous. You shouldn't have to be scared and constatly looking over your shoulder at work, or home. Good Luck Y Link to post Share on other sites
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