Timbo22 Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 My girlfriend of 3 years blind sided me 2 months ago and she said she needed space. So of you probably know my story so I wont go in to details. but things were great. Anyway I have been NC for a week now. Feeling a little better each day, Until her best friend texts me and says i think there is something you shoud know. I can already begin to feel my heart sink. Turns out before we dated my g/f was a slut, seriously she was. She was 17 and already had sex with 6 guys...She was very insecure about herself. So anyway when i 1st met her I didnt know anything about her past. She had about 10 guys trying to get with her at the time we went out. It was really annoying for about the 1st 3-4 months of dating because they would keep in contact. She then tells me she used to mess around and date some of them and they were just friends. Of course i trusted her and was ok with it. But I getting sick of it, especially when one of them wanted her to come over and cuddle and watch a movie. Another wanted to have her come of over and get drunk with him ( he was her ex). I had enough, of it from the myspace "Miss you" and everything else. She then stopped talking to them as our relationship grew stronger. She told me how insecure she was and she just wanted to feel wanted. She was one of those girls who takes really deceiving pics as well. With no make-up you wouldn't know who she was. She then realized how much i loved her, and she knew i didn't care about the past or her insecurities. Then our relationship took off like a rocket, she thought i was sent to her, same with me. she stressed being with me forever everything, she would always talk about future. So her friend tells me that she has been seeing all her ex bf's/flings and guys that wanted to get with her. Sure enough most of them are all added back on facebook, she has been partying with them, and hanging out with them. its so funny 3 -4 years gone by and she runs back to them? Rekindles their friendship? When she told me most of them used her. I'm not jealous I just don't understand... She leaves me with so many questions when the week before she is singing to be then the next she wants me to hate her and breaks up with me. We had so much together now it seems like she just changed into that person I dont even know. One of them was my facebook friend i didnt even know. She post's on is wall. His name, You drive me crazy :].... I'm sticking strictly NC, I tried for 2 months to get her back but she was out with a million dudes I guess. I just cant believe if you knew how we grew together and what we had it was all for nothing. Is it the case of the gigs? I met her when i was 17 and shes turning 21 now going to a party school. This whole thing makes me so sick to my stomach. One last thing, I met her on myspace. I had my shirt off as my profile pic and oneday a random girl commented "damn ;)". You guessed who that random girl was and what happened from there. After finding out she didnt really look like her pics and without make-up she was normal looking. It didnt matter because I really got to know where she came from and what made her do what she was doing. I fell for who she was as a person. I loved that person for who she was.... I probably should have known all along, I lost many friends because of her. She was always mad when I went out with my party friends. Even though I just wanted to have fun with my friends. I guess I should have known all along. Idk if she will ever comeback, she was my bestfriend. Now i dont exist...
Mov Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Sorry to hear that. Her best friend is trying to cause trouble, you didn't need to know that at all but she thought she would tell you. you never know it could be a thing to try to make it out if you are still wanting her. Stay NC - act like it doesn't bother you (even though it does) If your girlfriend wants to come back to you she will despite what she is doing now. NC = Strength for you - caving in now after a week would set you right back to the beginning
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Chi townD Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 So what EXACTLY did the best friend text tell you? That she was a slut or she's back to partying with her Ex's? Did she give you a reason as to why she sent the text to you? as it a warning to never get back with this girl, or to rub it in your face that she's seeing the Ex's that you didn't like? I'm a little confused
Author Timbo22 Posted April 5, 2011 Author Posted April 5, 2011 She just told me that she has been seeing all the guys she used to mess around with. Partying with them and all that stuff. This is her bestfriend, which Just to let you know tried having sex with me multiple times while I was in a realtionship her. She currently has a bf now, she wouldnt lie. I looked through my ex's friends and sure enough they are all there.
Chi townD Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 and the point to the texts? Rubbing in your face? Or warning you? or what?
Chi townD Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 okay...well...mark it up as childish games. If she's her best friend then she's probably doing it to get a rise out of you. I wouldn't respond back. Not worth your time. And by the way, you should de-friend her off your FB profile. That's part of the NC program. If they know that didn't get a rise out of you then I guarantee pic's of her all over these guys at party's are going up next. You need to separate yourself completely from her.
Author Timbo22 Posted April 5, 2011 Author Posted April 5, 2011 her friend told me that just so I would understand to let go... shes moving on and this has really been devastating to me. Shes out all the time when I never wanted her to be tied down, she just never talked to me.
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