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I dated my ex for 5 1/2 years and he broke up with me about 3 months ago. I immediately went NC and told him to not contact me so I could heal. I rapidly did great with my life and within the last 2 months of NC I have really done so many new things like snowboarding, sky diving, plan my trip to Asia, change my hair, date, etc.

 

I met this guy a month and half ago and we have been talking every night. Originally I wanted to date around and stay single but the more I got to know this guy I realized he is a really good catch and I feel butterflies around him. He knows my situation and we are taking things super slow. After a month he finally held my hands and just yesterday after 6 weeks we cuddled (no kiss or sex at all).

 

I like him and think he is bf potential. I don't want him to be a rebound guy so I'm not committing asap. Everyone says I'm rebounding! I'm not trying to fill a void though! It's not like I grabbed some random guy that was decent enough to be a bf.

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Unfortunately from what I've been told, read from various sources, and generally led to believe is that the first relationship you have after a serious relationship ends will be a rebound.

 

Sorry.

 

I can't tell this to be true from firsthand experience because I don't know. That is just what I have heard.

 

Rebound doesn't necessarily mean it will end or will be a dramatic mess however... that I HAVE learned, mostly from LS lol

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