dreamingoftigers Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Nicest guy ever? No biggest pussy ever. Well at least one genital type makes the cut for being "big." You all seriously mean to tell me you have never shared juicy sexual details with your bff? Not even when you were in your late teens to mid-twenties? I don't buy it! My friends and I still share virtually everything on this front but not in a vicious or turn-on way. In fact, my H is aware of it. One of my closer friends and I talk about in-bed issues too. She has taken some of my suggestions. Women don't stick with men that they aren't happy with in that department 99% of the time. I know the next man I sleep with is going to probably not be as hung as my exH was. That's just the truth of the matter. He was pretty good length and supa-dupa girth. However exH wasn't that good in bed... size made up for it Just keep telling yourself you get the man you gotta take the whole man... small dong and all. Please tell me OP... does he drive a large vehicle to overcompensate? I really really have to know lol This is dead-on for me too. One of my exes was somewhat small and he knew he was somewhat small. He didn't have an issue with it and would actually joke about it. What if this guy is the same? What if, heavens! The OP is right and he is on the small side and - --- imagine! He actually knows it and is comfortable with it!?! Being on the small side isn't the end of the world. Smaller men can still live an exciting love life. Why be so focused on linking a guy's sense of self-worth to the size of his penis? Totally true. There are more things then vaginal intercourse as well. Well, then I guess most of my guy friends can cast the first stone. Honestly, I find guys not to be as detail oriented as women in this area. as for myself, I only admit details about the one ex who has done similar things to the OP. If they used discretion, then I continue to do so. Guys tend to be more general is their descriptions of sex, in my experience, and talk more about acts. They may say someone is great in bed, or won't give them a bj, but it is rarely about the other person's specific physical qualities and tends to be more positive (nobody wants to admit having sex with a fat/unattractive woman). The female friends I have are much more apt to talk about penis size, amount of pubic hair, attributes of the guy, and whether they enjoyed it/had an orgasm. However, I rarely hear women speak about acts (e.g. he gave great head). I know the penis size of several of my friends due to this (and yet know nothing specific about the bodies of said women). As for this guy not caring, it could be any number of things. If I was enjoying the sex and didn't really see the woman as a long term prospect, I would let this slide as well. Otherwise, I risk losing access to her lady bits. I think both genders talk less about what they consider most sacredly private. A girl's self-image can be shattered by a guy destroying her naked appearance to his friends. Guys I think would be more troubled by a woman revealing that he cried at Sleepless in Seattle then revealing his penis size. I once eavesdropped on a cell conversation between a pair of women talking about the size of their husband's members. It seemed more of a sincere discussion than cheap banter, but still funny to hear nonetheless. I think that this is more typical. HOWEVER, if the girl's accidental text to the friend had been "He's SOOO big!!!" this story and thread responses would be completely different. Totally true.
Hules Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I think this Public Service Announcement might help some of the ladies in this thread understand the unwritten social conduct of male restrooms/change rooms.
BeginAgain Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 HOWEVER, if the girl's accidental text to the friend had been "He's SOOO big!!!" this story and thread responses would be completely different. That's because the intention is different. Her comment about him being small was meant to be insulting. That comment sounds more like it is complimentary. We have all heard guys talk about small breasts. Some with comments like "She had the cutest, perkiest, little titties I have ever seen." or "She was so small I couldn't find them. Did she even hit puberty yet?" when discussing the same pair. One is obviously a compliment and the other not so much. I've heard girls make comments secondhand about my receding hairline. I just blow the girl off and move on. What else can you do?The receding hairline in human males might be similar to the silverback in a gorilla, a sign of maturity and breeding potential.
Sanman Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I think this Public Service Announcement might help some of the ladies in this thread understand the unwritten social conduct of male restrooms/change rooms. LOL, So true. I have heard the occasional men's room conversation, but the other rules must always be followed. In fact, I often wonder why bathroom designers don't just rip out the middle urinals and put in fewer with barriers in between to increase the usable number.
MrNate Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 LOL. Bad move. This is karma's way of telling you that some things you keep to yourself. This is one of them. I'm surprised he stayed to be honest. Let me get a message like that.... lol, it's on baby.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I think this Public Service Announcement might help some of the ladies in this thread understand the unwritten social conduct of male restrooms/change rooms. very educational:laugh:
Thedude22 Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 There is something I just love about this thread, it's hilarious to me. I'm trying to think of what would happen if I was texting my friend about how smelly a girls snatch was in bed and I sent it to the girl. I would know I was doomed. I would likely just never even talk to the girl again, I wouldn't even question if it was over like the OP did. I'm not going to act like I haven't criticized my sexual partners, I've been with some uh...interesting women but I don't leave solid evidence of the deed in text form. Buuuut as it's a guy, who just got laid the previous night, I'm pretty sure she could put a cigarette out on his balls and spit in his face and he'd still say "No harm done". Either this girl is the greatest lay of all time or he has no spine. If a girl ****ed me so well I didn't care that she mocked my penis, she'd have some kind of adonis DNA in her or something.
Eternal Sunshine Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Oh when I was multi-dating - I wrote this detailed FB message to a friend of mine. It detailed all my dates (so far) with 3 guys, including details of how far things have gone physically. I gave them numbers and ranked them according to physical attractiveness. Then I accdientaly sent that message to the guy who was on the bottom of my attractiveness list. He de-friended me immediately
elaina Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 (edited) That's because the intention is different. Her comment about him being small was meant to be insulting. That comment sounds more like it is complimentary. Agreed If someone is going to talk to other people about their lover, complimenting is so much better!!! We have all heard guys talk about small breasts. Some with comments like "She had the cutest, perkiest, little titties I have ever seen." or "She was so small I couldn't find them. Did she even hit puberty yet?" when discussing the same pair. One is obviously a compliment and the other not so much. True. It all depends on how I suppose, even though I still don't see how a person's body is anybody elses' business. Kamille, I have never ever talked in detail about my ex husband or ex boyfriends' bodies, though yes definitely I have told my friends things like "He is so handsome I can just stare at him all day." and "He's awesome... I'm so in love with him!" but I don't go into details, except for romantic ones like "He gave me flowers and he actually helped with the dishes can you believe it?" lol. (Yes, a man helping with dishes is romantic to me.) However, I'm a private person so maybe I am not like other women in feeling the need to share specific details about my lover's body. My friends don't either, at least not to me, and that's fine with me. I have no need to know about the bodies of their men. Edited April 6, 2011 by elaina
Kamille Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 My comments yesterday were meant to poke fun at all the people who took such a moral high ground over something that can be a topic of discussion among friends: my first time with my new guy (or girl). That LS in general and this thread in particular has managed to garner so many individuals who have never ever disclosed sexual details to their friends is outstanding. I simply didn't see the point in lording it over the OP. While you, your friends, your family and your grandchildren would never dream of sharing intimate details with a friend, you could probably still admit that some people out there in the world do engage in the practice of discussing their first time with a friend.
yessy21 Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 omg..... How ackward! I dont think this is that bad though. u guys can get creative... strap ons.. ect. .
Akumark Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Hahahahaha This story ended up quite well, I'm pretty sure a guy can forgive this kind of behavior. It's not like if she told her friend that the guys was the worst f*ck she ever had.
tincanman99 Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Is anything less than a mule too small? Or are we talking mouse equipment? Give us numbers, we want to know.
MrNate Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Is anything less than a mule too small? Or are we talking mouse equipment? Give us numbers, we want to know. Hey now, not all of us... jeez.
mitchell Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I'd say she owes this guy an awesome BJ and some anal.
lenny Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I had a similar situation happen when I was in my early 20s - not texting though. I was back home for a weekend and hooked up with this guy from my crowd with the nickname Barney that was extremely small. I gossiped with my girlfriend about it the next day before returning home. A year later I moved back and his nickname had been changed to Tiny and I didn't think anything about it (he's a short guy). I found out a few months later it was because of me. I was super ashamed of myself. Ironically, the girlfriend I shared this with is now married to the guy. I'd say you major lucked out that this guy is so forgiving.
Memphis Raines Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 One of my exes was somewhat small and he knew he was somewhat small. He didn't have an issue with it and would actually joke about it. What if this guy is the same? What if, heavens! The OP is right and he is on the small side and - --- imagine! He actually knows it and is comfortable with it!?! could be, maybe. even if that were true, it would still tick anyone off that she would speak in a negative way to someone else about it. thats private. she wasn't joking when she thought she sent it to someone. Even if I had a small one and was fine with it, I would NOT be fine with some woman blabbing it all over in a non-joking way(or even in a joking way)
Memphis Raines Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 Either this girl is the greatest lay of all time or he has no spine. If a girl ****ed me so well I didn't care that she mocked my penis, she'd have some kind of adonis DNA in her or something. if she mocked your penis telling everyone how small it was, that may be the last time you get "****ed so well" for a while
Memphis Raines Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 My comments yesterday were meant to poke fun at all the people who took such a moral high ground over something that can be a topic of discussion among friends since you think it was simply a topic of discussion among friends, then answer me this. Same type of situation, just genders reversed. what if a guy you were with told other guys that your hooch smelled nasty and rotten, that would sit simply well with you eh?
Kamille Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 since you think it was simply a topic of discussion among friends, then answer me this. Same type of situation, just genders reversed. what if a guy you were with told other guys that your hooch smelled nasty and rotten, that would sit simply well with you eh? Let's use loose vagina as an example, since anatomically it's a closer comparison. If I was aware that I tended towards the looser size and that it posed a challenge in lovemaking, you know what, I might feel flustered - but it wouldn't shatter my world, especially if the guy said the sex was still good. You guys are acting like there's no way this guy even realized before he saw that text that he had a smaller one. IME, smaller guys know they're smaller. They also generally tend to have a sense of humor about it. I'm not saying this guy will find what the OP did graceful. I think there's a chance he'll pull back. I don't think, however, that her sharing the details with a friend was such an outrageous act.
Darren Taylor Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 I don't think, however, that her sharing the details with a friend was such an outrageous act. She had no business sharing it in the first place. There is no justification for what the OP did.
BeginAgain Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 The closest male counterpart, in terms of embarrassment and damage caused by the act, to this would be a guy sharing nude photos of his gf with friends. I doubt you would want him sharing something so intimate.
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