romanticguy Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Hi everyone, I have a problem, there is this girl that I really love, We have been meeting at my place for sometime now, at first she came like 3 times, but we didn't do anything, we just talked, I cooked for her, watched movies, listen to music then went back home. It reached a time where she had to let me go and give a chance to someone else since she thought that I might not be interested, but i never stopped loving her though i had to let her go cause she already made up her mind. But after sometime she broke up with her dude, and with time she came to ask me, "why am I always good to her?", I told her my reasons that I love her no matter what and she said that she loves me in her own way. Recently we met again at my place like two times but still didn't do anything though she enjoyed and we talked many things even about sex but didn't do. I don't know why but somehow I feel like my feelings for her are making me weak and powerless, and I don't know what to do about it. we have gotten so close with each other but we enjoy each other's company. Right now i feel that she might even get bored with me and never wanting to c me again, I want to invite her again at my place this weekend if she will b free and make out with her in every way possible. What do you guys think?, any tips to help me out on this one? thanks
Hules Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Sorry to say but it sounds like you have become the fallback guy, when she isn't with anyone she enjoys the attention you give her but nothing more. Personally I wouldn't have anything to do with her if I had feelings for her and she wasn't reciprocating, thats just me though. I don't like feeling like I'm been used.
SingVoice Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I'm confused. Are you guys even dating??? Sounds like you are just 'hanging out'. Have you guys actually gone on any dates or anything?? I mean...maybe she is confused because she doesn't know what you guys are to each other.
Author romanticguy Posted April 5, 2011 Author Posted April 5, 2011 I'm confused. Are you guys even dating??? Sounds like you are just 'hanging out'. Have you guys actually gone on any dates or anything?? I mean...maybe she is confused because she doesn't know what you guys are to each other. We haven't gone out, we just see each other, what if I invite her again and try to make out with her?, would that mean something to her?
Author romanticguy Posted April 5, 2011 Author Posted April 5, 2011 We haven't gone out, we just see each other, what if I invite her again and try to make out with her?, would that mean something to her? Plus I also feel like making love to her...I want her so much!
blackmagik Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 You are completely friendzoned, no question. Girls come to a guys house almost EXPECTING them to make a move. When you didn't the first three times she figured you weren't interested romantically and moved you into friend status. Have fun in the friendzone there is no getting out of it here. Also I wouldn't mention the word love to her when you guys haven't really dated or hang out. That probably scared her away too..
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