greengoddess Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 :sick: No I really do not think they ever change and they are sex addicts if one believes in that thing. I feel sorry for all the women taken in by men like this. Not the other women though because they know the man is a cheater so they get a cheater but for the women who have invested ten plus years of their lives with these men having no clue that they are not who they appear to be. I read somewhere else and one such serial cheaters marriages are now over. The wandering spouses are all gathering around the cheater. I don't get it. it just makes me sick. Years this couple has been recovering and the cheater paid a 16 year old for sex. WHO GATHERS AROUND THAT? Thank goodness the wife is now running. Ihope she keeps her children far far away from this man. That's child molestation as far as I am concerned. I don't care if it was mutual. Any adult over the age of 30 that wants a 16 year old is truly sick.
Spark1111 Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 here is another thing that interests me and I have no way of gathering info, so if men come along, I would be interested: How old are most prostitutes? I know they can be any age, but if a man visits strip clubs or pays for prostitutes, does he ever question their age? Would it repulse him, or not? Does he even think of the age of the woman he is paying? ...just wondering... Would he draw a line at 21, 25, 29, 32, 36? Does he care? Because I would. I most definitely would want to know this info IF I ever had to pay anyone for sex.
misternoname Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Here's the flip side...I think some female cheaters are "attention" addicts. My ex had four affairs (that I know of). Through therapy I discovered that she was not looking for sex but more of a need to feel wanted, pretty, etc despite my treating her like a princess. Her father died at a young age. She has spent her entire adult life seeking out confimation that "daddy" loved her. All of her partners were older men. In each case she thought she was in love. It was disgusting. It was pathetic but despite numerous attempts to fix the problem, it just wouldn't go away therefore I went away. Serial cheating is the most insidious type of affair. Serial cheaters, regardless of the motivation, exhibit behavior that utterly disregards their spouse's feelings. Had I known that years ago I would have bailed after the first one...many wasted years .
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