Toolbag Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 So. I can't sleep and I have no one left to talk to. I feel like ****. Yesterday, my girlfriend of 14 months told me we needed to take a break. We hadn't talked for two days, and I understood the reasons why. The way I word things isn't always the best and she feels like im always trying to outcompete her or something. Also, she feels constricted by me- like she can't hang out with her friends. I really don't care if she hangs out with friends, because I love her and trust her 100%- we have been through a lot for such a young couple (deaths of friends, family, long distance). Im heartbroken right now though because after we broke up, she told me that the day before she hung out with some guy. They were just talking and then he tried to kiss her multiple times which she refused, until she gave in for one split second because shes been mad at me and did- she immediatly pushed him away though. The thing is, I still love her to death. She's one of my best if not my only real friends. It just drives me insane that this happened. It was literally two weeks ago that things changed, and now Idk what to do. She wants to work things out but I dont know where to go from here. I really don't even care if anybody replies to this. I just needed to vent my feelings out to somewhere at 430 AM.
PegNosePete Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Im heartbroken right now though because after we broke up, she told me that the day before she hung out with some guy. Saw that one coming... sorry dude. You said you understood the reasons why, well obviously now you know the real reason. And I hope you don't still trust her 100% because she is obviously not trustworthy. They were just talking and then he tried to kiss her multiple times which she refused So after the first time he tried to kiss her, why didn't she walk away, or make it clear that he is never to do that again? That is what a non-cheater would do. What would you do if some girl tried to kiss you? Just carry on the conversation as if nothing had happened? And then when she tries again, just still carry on, and then she tries again just ignore it again and again and again? Come on that is not normal behaviour. That is behaviour of someone who loves and wants the attention. until she gave in for one split second because shes been mad at me and did- she immediatly pushed him away though. Bullocks. She wanted it and she did it because she wanted to. It's got nothing to do with being mad at you, it's all her. Don't believe the pushing away line. She had been wanting it all conversation, that is why she didn't end it when he started coming onto her (if that's even what happened). It's extremely unlikely that she is as snow white as you're making out here. She's lying to you dude. She wants to work things out but I dont know where to go from here. Not married + no kids + cheating = straight to dumpedville, do not pass go, do not collect £200.
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