woundedheart Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I realize that there are lots of different stories in this site just as there are in the site I frequent. This isn't about any of your, just her. She is his best friend's wife, she knew me, they did it anyway. Because you and your husband were so miserable in your marriage but couldn't afford to get a divorce to get away from each other you decided to come after everything that is mine:mad:. Yes we've been having problem. Yes he complained to you. But you made sure you fed into those problems. You not only played up to his complaints but you put thoughts there that weren't before. You carefully planned the end of my marriage. When he told you that he didn't want to take it from sex talk to live sex you pushed until you won. You told him to go to the lawyer, you even sent a list of questions for him to ask. Why is it not shocking that they were all about money? You paid to get me out of town, you paid to fly from VA to AL, you paid for the hotel and the meals. Then when he was ashamed and wanted out you tried to blackmail him. Well, guess what. He says that he never intended to be with you even when he left me. He says you are a leach. He finds it funny that you were willing to pay to get laid . He is getting everything from me that he complained to you about. So, if he ever goes there again with you or anyone else he will get that divorce he asked for before. However, you can rest assured that I have collected enough proof of adultery (thanks for leaving a trail) that the answers to your questions will be really easy: I get everything. I'm not stupid, that's how I found out about you. If you don't want to be married find a single guy and have at it. I'd suggest you stay away from mine.
greengoddess Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 obviously you are not in a no fault state. Lucky for you. By chance are you in an alienation of affection state? Sorry for your pain. Wishing you a full recovery from this nightmare of double betrayal. Did his bestfriend find out also?
Author woundedheart Posted April 5, 2011 Author Posted April 5, 2011 Yeah, I told him when I found the text messages to begin with. Sick thing is he already knew:eek:. Said he was ok with it. Helped them hide it from me. Guess he wanted to unload her on my husband as bad as she wanted to get away from him. Part of the R agreement is that he have NC with either of them ever again. Breaking that would be the end.
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