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orangelady Established Member

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Would you continue to write to someone you met on a dating site if he told you he was interested in other girls in real life?

 

I guess it's no harm to be friends but it gets really tiring when you can talk to someone but he is interested in someone else.........

TokyoG33kyGal Established Member

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Would you continue to write to someone you met on a dating site if he told you he was interested in other girls in real life?

 

what is he doing in the dating site then if he's interested in other girls IRL? i guess i am confused, is he keeping his options open or did he only sign up to chat?

 

to answer your question, personally i would stop talking to him. but that's only because my intent is to look for a serious relationship and it's pointless to talk with someone not as interested.

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what is he doing in the dating site then if he's interested in other girls IRL? i guess i am confused, is he keeping his options open or did he only sign up to chat?

 

He told me that he is crazy about this girl he met in his department but she already has a boyfriend and that boyfriend is a really nice guy so he doesn't want to do anything about it. He says he keeps falling for girls who are already in a relationship. So he is on the dating site to look for someone to that he can forget about his girl.

 

to answer your question, personally i would stop talking to him. but that's only because my intent is to look for a serious relationship and it's pointless to talk with someone not as interested.

 

True.....I feel that way too. I think he is nice but he is so interested in that girl, I guess it kinda is tiring for me to keep hearing him talk about her. I just told him that I hope that maybe he gets to be with her some day..whatever eh....

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No, I fail to see the point.

TokyoG33kyGal Established Member

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He told me that he is crazy about this girl he met in his department but she already has a boyfriend and that boyfriend is a really nice guy so he doesn't want to do anything about it. He says he keeps falling for girls who are already in a relationship. So he is on the dating site to look for someone to that he can forget about his girl.

 

True.....I feel that way too. I think he is nice but he is so interested in that girl, I guess it kinda is tiring for me to keep hearing him talk about her. I just told him that I hope that maybe he gets to be with her some day..whatever eh....

 

you now have more reason to stop talking to him. he needs to move on first before he can find someone again.

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