Dlyrica Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Nothing moot about it. That is the price of admission. Next date you go on, try an experiment. Tell him you were born with a non-functional vagina or you were born without one due to a birth defect. Then come back and tell us how many second dates you get. No, you misinterpreted me. I definitely agree that most men care about vaginas more than anything. The point is, that's not why they are dating 17-23 year olds. Almost everyone on this thread (the men that were into it) claimed that the younger women had better mindsets?, or something about their personalities or whatever NOT that they had better...vaginas ha.
BeginAgain Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 So it's not pedophilia if the girl is 12-13? Erm, I think the law might disagree... You are confusing pedophilia with statutory rape. One is a paraphilia and a psychological disorder with very particular parameters while the other is legislation that can be changed to any age and doesn't exist in some parts of the world or isn't enforced. When two teenagers have sex, it's likely to be very innocent and straight-forward. An older man will often try to introduce a teenager to sex acts and fetishes that she definitely isn't ready for, and if she's young and naive he'll probably be able to convince her to do whatever he wants. That's wrong, whether she's legal or not. You can cause serious psychological trauma for a teenage girl if you use and abuse her for your own sexual gratification, whicis obviously what you're doing since an adult man in his 30s can't possibly want a relationship with a teenager. Selfish, selfish, selfish... Typical old wives' tale *yawn*
soserious1 Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 As long as your partner is of the legal age of consent, it's none of anybody's business who you decide to date.
bac Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 The point is, that's not why they are dating 17-23 year olds. Almost everyone on this thread (the men that were into it) claimed that the younger women had better mindsets? Perhaps, you are right that older guys want to date the younger girls because of the girls better mindsets. Many of the guys are just looking for a lot of meaningful and intelligent conversations and also a deep emotional connection with the 17-23 y.o.girls. The guys can not have such a quality time with older girls because of their bad mindsets and personalities. IMO the guys are not looking for young girls just because the girls look very similar to every girl from their porn which they watch on daily basis. Men enjoy watching porn with young girls and they get what they want from the porn. Then, they go out and they see young girls who are looking the same as the girls from porn. But, great mindsets and personalities of young girls are definitely the major goals why men want to date 17-23 y.o.
sniffys Posted April 10, 2011 Posted April 10, 2011 (edited) this thread is ew. first of all lets just not argue with these men, most of us here were speaking from experience and observation..not being catty. im not jealous of younger women. they have the looks but i had that too (lol), and eveyrone ages anyway. i am not jealous cause the guys who like them dont interest me..i look very young for my age though. but im sure if the guys know my real age they will go look fr a 13 year old hehe when i was in my 20s though damn..i had no career, no money, i dated a lot of guys..i didnt know any better. now i talk to younger guys who have problems w/ their 20 or young gfs and they ask me for advice saying they wish they had an older gf. when i was younger also i views much older women to be beautiful, 30 year old angelina jolie was in cambodia for UN, rachel weisz strutting her stuff in the mummy.. gorgeous. lets just make these men learn from experience, or enjoy their experiences. not all men are meant to be fathers or dads or husbands anyway (especially not these men..God forbid they have daughters)..and if they have money for younger women then so be it, to each their own. in this world, you can never run out of younger women.. the world is your oyster Mr Cairo (and your followers). Edited April 10, 2011 by sniffys
MissJoness Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 You all act as if the younger girls won't EVER age. They will get older just like everybody else. There is a lot of woman bashing going on in this thread.
BeginAgain Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 You all act as if the younger girls won't EVER age. They will get older just like everybody else. There is a lot of woman bashing going on in this thread. And I'll get older with her. It doesn't mean I'll abandon my once young love for another as young since she just hit 40 whether she was 19 or 29 when I met her at 29. We'll grow old and grow together with our lives becoming increasingly intertwined with time whether she is a year younger or ten. At least that is what ideally will occur. No one has an increased or decreased capacity for a serious lifelong connection and relationship based on age. Once a flake always a flake. You can't grow out of it. You can't be turned into Mr. or Mrs. Commitment. You are or you aren't. Some mate for life and some mate for now.
kiss_andmakeup Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 You all act as if the younger girls won't EVER age. They will get older just like everybody else. There is a lot of woman bashing going on in this thread. A lot of men seek out younger women for long term relationships because they think they might have less emotional baggage than someone their own age. I'm not saying this is always the case, obviously there are 19 year olds with as much baggage as some 35 year olds, and vice versa. My point is that there are elements beyond looks that draw men to younger women sometimes and therefore their aging isn't an issue if the relationship is healthy and loving.
bac Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 And I'll get older with her. It doesn't mean I'll abandon my once young love for another as young since she just hit 40 whether she was 19 or 29 when I met her at 29. We'll grow old and grow together with our lives becoming increasingly intertwined with time whether she is a year younger or ten. At least that is what ideally will occur. No one has an increased or decreased capacity for a serious lifelong connection and relationship based on age. Once a flake always a flake. You can't grow out of it. You can't be turned into Mr. or Mrs. Commitment. You are or you aren't. Some mate for life and some mate for now. Unfortunately, it is not always so great especially when the older men in 40s get married girls in 20s.
MissJoness Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 And I'll get older with her. It doesn't mean I'll abandon my once young love for another as young since she just hit 40 whether she was 19 or 29 when I met her at 29. We'll grow old and grow together with our lives becoming increasingly intertwined with time whether she is a year younger or ten. At least that is what ideally will occur. No one has an increased or decreased capacity for a serious lifelong connection and relationship based on age. Once a flake always a flake. You can't grow out of it. You can't be turned into Mr. or Mrs. Commitment. You are or you aren't. Some mate for life and some mate for now. Yeah but it's not uncommon to hear men leaving their wives for younger women though.
BeginAgain Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Yeah but it's not uncommon to hear men leaving their wives for younger women though. Would it make you feel better if they were older women?
MissJoness Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 Would it make you feel better if they were older women? Quite honestly, yeah it would make me feel good. WE get older, not younger. I like the reassurance knowing that a man will appreciate me even if I am not so young anymore. But hearing that women are disposable at 30 disheartens me because it's right around the corner--and women are considered young for such a short period of time.
Andy_K Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 --and women are considered young for such a short period of time. That is the unfortunate payoff for having much greater dating options and sexual appeal than pretty much any guy could ever hope for during your late teens to your late twenties. You get to be the star that shines brightest and burns out fastest!
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 12, 2011 Posted April 12, 2011 I say, if a guy had no sexual appeal at age 20, and at 40 he manages to get "sexy", he should date 20 year olds. He never had the experience when he was that age, so he should make up for it.
BeginAgain Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 I say, if a guy had no sexual appeal at age 20, and at 40 he manages to get "sexy", he should date 20 year olds. He never had the experience when he was that age, so he should make up for it. I kind of have to agree with this a little bit. I thought it was ridiculous the 40 Year Old Virgin had to be with the middle aged woman in the end just because. She has had many more sexual opportunities than he ever had and it seems like a gross mismatch.
BeginAgain Posted April 13, 2011 Posted April 13, 2011 Quite honestly, yeah it would make me feel good. WE get older, not younger. I like the reassurance knowing that a man will appreciate me even if I am not so young anymore. But hearing that women are disposable at 30 disheartens me because it's right around the corner--and women are considered young for such a short period of time. But he's still a cheater cheater pumpkin eater. In other words he's no good. I still can't quite see why it matters who he did it with even if it was the family dog. I am finding on these dating sites the ones I have anything remotely in common with or who look almost normal are in their late teens to early 20's and quite a few of them don't want a 29 year old. The ones closer to my age are many times morbidly obese. Time passes us all by. I kind of saw my life as being over many years ago and that I was living on borrowed time. It doesn't bother me so much anymore. You got a long way to go. See you where I was in a few years kid.
Shaun-Dro Posted April 19, 2011 Posted April 19, 2011 As I get older I am attracted to younger women, but not teen girls. I like 21-27 mostly right now, with 23-24 being right in the thick of it. Women are most fertile in those years. Well, actually, she's most fertile between 16-20 but the law rejects under 17 in NYS, so I stay safe with 21 plus.
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