EDP81 Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Hi to all. Im new to this site. A friend of mine comes on here quite often so I checked it out and its cool. Anyway, Im 33, single, no kids, and never married. Im mostly interested in women between 17 & 23. Mind you, 17 is legal where Im at so dont worry lol. I get lots of looks and good feedback from women in that age range, and I've fooled around with a few, but not any more than that. I wanna take it up a notch but Im having trouble with it right now. I notice that women in their 30s give me dirty looks and act sort of crappy to me when Im with a young girl. This bothers me and I feel self-conscious about it. But at the same time, I love younger women since they tend to be free of great emotional baggage. Less likely to have kids, and just all-around more liberated in doing/trying different things. I never get this result with women in my age group. Heck, they're hard to even approach, given they always have guards up because of men-issues, etc. I dont wanna be bothered with that! I just want a nice young girl with a good head on her shoulders. I've always been into them, and even more as I get older, I've noticed lol. Anyway, is it wrong to feel this way? Am I limiting my chances at finding happiness by pursuing the younger females? Im just looking for some feedback from you guys if your in the same boat or have been, and what you think about this matter.
Woggle Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 It is only an issue if they are in their teens. If not that then people should mind their business.
Knittress Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 It's legal, so mostly you've got to worry about whether it's 'ok' with the people you're pursuing. As for whether it's ok with LS-writ-large, you're going to find a variety of responses, probably mirroring the ones you've encountered in your daily life. What's the point of this? Me, personally, I wouldn't find this appealing behavior in a perspective date regardless of my age. But, meh - who cares? Live and let live.
NXS Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I feel the same way about a lot of the women in their 30s, if they give you crappy looks just smile and give them a wink. I think you should avoid the ones under 20 though, a bit too young.
orangelady Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Hi to all. Im new to this site. A friend of mine comes on here quite often so I checked it out and its cool. Anyway, Im 33, single, no kids, and never married. Im mostly interested in women between 17 & 23. Mind you, 17 is legal where Im at so dont worry lol. I get lots of looks and good feedback from women in that age range, and I've fooled around with a few, but not any more than that. I wanna take it up a notch but Im having trouble with it right now. I notice that women in their 30s give me dirty looks and act sort of crappy to me when Im with a young girl. This bothers me and I feel self-conscious about it. But at the same time, I love younger women since they tend to be free of great emotional baggage. Less likely to have kids, and just all-around more liberated in doing/trying different things. I never get this result with women in my age group. Heck, they're hard to even approach, given they always have guards up because of men-issues, etc. I dont wanna be bothered with that! I just want a nice young girl with a good head on her shoulders. I've always been into them, and even more as I get older, I've noticed lol. Anyway, is it wrong to feel this way? Am I limiting my chances at finding happiness by pursuing the younger females? Im just looking for some feedback from you guys if your in the same boat or have been, and what you think about this matter. Oh that's strange. Most women between 18-23 already have kids.
Knittress Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Oh that's strange. Most women between 18-23 already have kids. Uh... no? I suppose it depends on the area. Most people I know in that age group are exploring the joys of co-ed life and preparing for their futures as superb trivial pursuit players.
Pyro Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 what ever floats your Boat OP, but keep in mind that alot of women in that age range may not be wanting to settle down just yet and many will not be mature enough for you.
Pfiend101 Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 The reason the older women get upset is they are jealous. They no longer have the looks they had at that age. They are nearing their expiration date. As a man you have no expiration. As long as you continue to make money you can have all the younger women you want. Dont hate me for stating the truth. Good day.
Woggle Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 The reason the older women get upset is they are jealous. They no longer have the looks they had at that age. They are nearing their expiration date. As a man you have no expiration. As long as you continue to make money you can have all the younger women you want. Dont hate me for stating the truth. Good day. This is completely false. An older woman without the baggage and man hating attitude is just as attractive as a younger woman but most of these women are already taken.
grecian Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I don't see anything wrong with that - my guy and i have 8 years difference. I think, though, that you'll have problems if you want a serious relationship and plan to settle down. It's very unlikely to find a girl at that age who is mature enough and ready for a long term relationship.
Romeofud Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 You damn straight they like to believe it. Although I've seen hot broads in their 30s, but it's no where near the same as the 20s lol. I love younger women myself, but no teen girls. I like them to be at least 21 but not over 28, but I'm 32 so that's just me. OP, just do you, man. If the younger hotties are into you, go for them and to hell with the rest of the world and their naiive opinions .
Woggle Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 The same women who roll their eyes at this would probably high five their friends for dating a younger man.
zengirl Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Oh that's strange. Most women between 18-23 already have kids. What? Where? Nowhere I've ever lived. Most of my friends are in their mid to late 20s, and very few have kids (a few are married with babies). The same women who roll their eyes at this would probably high five their friends for dating a younger man. If my female friends (who are generally in the 24-35 range; I'm 26) were dating 18 year old boys, I'd find them weird and creepy. Those kids can't even get a drink legally! No high fives for them. I've taught some kids that age (17/18!). Beyond that, I don't find it "wrong" --- just kind of weird. I always stayed well clear of guys like that and still even stay clear of guys much older than myself. But unless they're trying to date high school girls/guys or something, people can do what they like. I just don't want to really know people like that. YMMV.
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 The reason the older women get upset is they are jealous. They no longer have the looks they had at that age. They are nearing their expiration date. As a man you have no expiration. As long as you continue to make money you can have all the younger women you want. Dont hate me for stating the truth. Good day. This is absolutely right.
D-Lish Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 The same women who roll their eyes at this would probably high five their friends for dating a younger man. I am not rolling my eyes at this- but a thirty something guy isn't going to find much in common with a 17 year old girl anymore than a 30 something woman would have much in common with a 17 year old dude. If it's legal where he is, and there is consent, what can be said about whether it's right or wrong. I find "17" much more creepy than "23" though.
BeautifulMan Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Nothing wrong with using an young tulip for a romp in the sack. I'd say head to Vegas and in the late night/early morning confusion, pick you up a young one primed and ready.
BeginAgain Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Pursue the women you are attracted to. Stay with the women who you get along with. If the much younger woman wants you in return then there is nothing wrong. People will always find something to disapprove of. Like for myself I hate that it is close to impossible to find a virgin or under experienced female who is 16 or over. I am not their fathers here to regulate their lives for the better. They don't need my approval and they will continue to act in the way they wish no matter how I feel. All I can do is cope with it. That's what those 30-something women need to do. It works both ways ladies. It is a two way street girls.
fishtaco Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Creepy or rich? My sister happens to like men that are significantly older, like 20 years older. She's in her 30's. Her last boyfriend looked like a college professor. Every where they went, people thought he was rich and she was a gold digger. The waiters and waitresses at restaurants were ALWAYS extra nice to them. I found it highly amusing. I told her to wear expensive jewelry everywhere she goes. Anyway, I met a chick last night that there may be some chemistry felt by both sides. Except she's young. Not quite half my age, but somewhere in that range. She's well on the legal side though. So I may have a tough decision coming up. Man... all my friends will give me so much crap if I end up dating her. Especially the female friends that are older than me. But I'm going to balance it out by also hitting up on a woman that's a few years older than me.
Eeyore79 Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Some teenagers are very naive and childlike, even at 17-18. When I was that age, I was pursued by a man of about 30, and he wanted to have a sexually involved adult relationship. Even though I was (barely) of a legal age to have sex, I still think of it as child abuse, because I was young and naive and he manipulated me. I hope some girl doesn't grow up feeling that you abused her. My advice is to stick to girls over 21, because there's a very fine line between dating teenagers and pedophilia.
BeginAgain Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Pedophilia ends when the focus of the sexual attraction has entered puberty and in a girl that's 12 or 13 on average. Also by 18 you should have been well aware what the world of sex and adulthood was all about even if you were sheltered as a teen. Besides if you are one of those very few completely naive 18 year old girls it is better to be introduced by someone experienced rather than someone your own age who won't be as considerate.
LittleTiger Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I would be surprised if a man of 33 had anything more than a sexual interest in a teenager. So if you're just after sex - go for it - provided the girl knows that's all you want. If you're looking for a relationship, you'll be very lucky to find a girl in her teens that's mature enough for you, unless you're fairly immature yourself (no offence intended). Also be careful of the underlying dynamics. If a teenager is interested in you for a LTR she may have some 'daddy' issues and there may be a significant power differential. As long as you don't hurt anybody I don't see a problem but do be responsible about it and remember that a 17 year old is very impressionable and may be easily coerced. You'll need to be very careful that anything you suggest doing sexually (or otherwise) is something she really wants and not something she's doing just to make you happy.
BeginAgain Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I wish 17 year old girls were as easily influenced as you claim but that is not nearly the case otherwise every guy could get laid.
thatdog Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 The 'Bro Code' states that the minimum age of a girl you are with should be half your age + 7. 32/2 + 7 = 23. Obviously it's a joke. But this theory has been floating around for quite a while. I think I first heard of it about 10 years ago, and all of my friends seem to agree that it does give a very accurate indication of what would normally be deemed socially acceptable by most people.
LittleTiger Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I wish 17 year old girls were as easily influenced as you claim but that is not nearly the case otherwise every guy could get laid. Just because young men don't manage to get 17 year old girls to have sex with them doesn't mean they're not easily influenced. What it means is that you don't currently have the skills required. An older, more experienced man, especially one who knows how to charm the ladies, will find it fairly easy to coerce a teenager - unless she's already very worldly wise.
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