plfnyc Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Hi everyone. I'm going through a bit of a predicament. My boyfriend and I have been together for almost 5 years. We've been living together for 3. He is almost 20 years older than me. He is the bestest friend I could ever ask for and I could never imagine leaving him but lately I've been thinking about leaving him. He has absolutely no friends in the city. Once very popular in his hometown the only other people he sees other than me are his mom and coworkers. This is frustrating because I feel guilty going out with my friends and doing things with my friends without him. We have sex like once a month. This is the most annoying and difficult issue to talk with him. I've hinted, commented and said things over the past couple of years but nothing has changed. I'm in my 20's...I need to get laid more than once a month. Sometimes he says very insulting things to me. He always apologizes but I can't wrap my head around the fact that the man I'm in love with can say such condescending and ugly things. My friends feel uncomfortable around him but this might just be because of his age. I can't talk to them about any of these issues because I don't want to be judged. I dont know what to do. I don't know how to lay out any of these issues before him because my heart breaks at the thought of leaving him. I've never been so in love and at the same time I'm totally frustrated with my relationship at this point. Any comments/thoughts/advice would be appreciated.
Lexygirl Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 All I can suggest is that you communicate with him everything you are feeling. Good luck.
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