Irishlove Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 For a year I was under the impression my MM was getting divorced. I'm far from stupid but I hung on and believed the lies. Ten days he has to figure it out and he finds something to argue with me about and stops talking to me. Everything will get back to normal and he will call again. I want to see him in person so I can shove my foot up his decieving arse. I'm far from ugly and to be used for his mid life crisis makes me sick. What makes me even more sick is finding out he was lying to his wife. I would have NEVER of touched him if I would have known he was lying to her and trying to make it work. I've cried, been sick, been angry. But I'm going to sit back and watch revenge take over. I won't do a thing. He will get his. Just thinking about him touching me makes me sick. I used to feel butterflys now I want to smoosh them damn butterflys. Oh those revenge vibes are out there. When he comes back AND HE WILL.....he will find himself alone. I hope she does divorce his lying arse. Thanks for letting me vent. I'm all over the map with feelings.
donnamaybe Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 I can't say I blame you for the level of rage you feel right now. You put your heart out there, and the sick twisted ____ just played with it. I'm sorry that happened to you. But - at least you were were smart enough to have figured him out after a relatively short period of time. There are, sadly, women still waiting after over half a decade for the "love of their life" to leve their wives. You have the rest of your life in front of you. Those other poor women are still clinging to a dream.
Confused4Now Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 For a year I was under the impression my MM was getting divorced. I'm far from stupid but I hung on and believed the lies. Ten days he has to figure it out and he finds something to argue with me about and stops talking to me. Everything will get back to normal and he will call again. I want to see him in person so I can shove my foot up his decieving arse. I'm far from ugly and to be used for his mid life crisis makes me sick. What makes me even more sick is finding out he was lying to his wife. I would have NEVER of touched him if I would have known he was lying to her and trying to make it work. I've cried, been sick, been angry. But I'm going to sit back and watch revenge take over. I won't do a thing. He will get his. Just thinking about him touching me makes me sick. I used to feel butterflys now I want to smoosh them damn butterflys. Oh those revenge vibes are out there. When he comes back AND HE WILL.....he will find himself alone. I hope she does divorce his lying arse. Thanks for letting me vent. I'm all over the map with feelings.You'll look back a year from now and say to yourself wow how could I put so much energy into being mad. He truly is not worth it. Hang in there and focus on you...thats what's more important.
spice4life Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Sorry you going through this right now. Whenever I got angry, I would type an email to him and "save to draft" to vent it all out. What did he pick a fight about?
Author Irishlove Posted April 4, 2011 Author Posted April 4, 2011 Every morning we say good morning and I love you. That morning he didn't. I recieved a text that said "hey" I said "wow, you are being cold" and he said he did say "I love you" .....this was at eight in the morning. I recieved the I love you text at noon...yea right. He just wrote it and sent it. Im not stupid. So he said "saying I'm so cold is the meanest thing anyone could say to me, you're crazy good bye" and that was the end of that. A year....gone.
Author Irishlove Posted April 4, 2011 Author Posted April 4, 2011 Could someone please take the time to tell me what the abbrev. mean? I can figure out some but not all. Sorry. Thank you
BB07 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 (edited) Could someone please take the time to tell me what the abbrev. mean? I can figure out some but not all. Sorry. Thank you This should help. http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t228723/ It's good you are pissed Irish......it has its purpose and will move you toward keeping yourself out of a no win situation. Welcome to LS, although I'm sorry it's under the current circumstances. Edited April 5, 2011 by BB07
TurboGirl Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Every morning we say good morning and I love you. That morning he didn't. I recieved a text that said "hey" I said "wow, you are being cold" and he said he did say "I love you" .....this was at eight in the morning. I recieved the I love you text at noon...yea right. He just wrote it and sent it. Im not stupid. So he said "saying I'm so cold is the meanest thing anyone could say to me, you're crazy good bye" and that was the end of that. A year....gone. Darlin' I was just dumped via text after 2.5 years! I feel your pain, truly I do. Stay pissed, but don't contact that SOB. You are so much better than that!
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