luxury Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 My Husband and I started dating when we were very young he was 15 and I was 16. We got marriend when we were 22years old. So we been together 9 years, but married 3 years. We have a 2 year old son, that we love more than anything in the entire world. For the past years i been very unhappy with this realtionship. Im just very tierd of his substance abuse, and him being such a jerk with me. I love him more than anything, but it hurts me that he never shows that he cares and that loves me. One of the big issues with us other than his substance abuse is his family. We have a two year old boy, and just like any family I want to be able to spend some good quality time with my son and him, since we dont get to see eachother that much because he works night shift. He works on Sat till 6 pm which is not bad, so when I ask him if he would like to go out to dinner or maybe catch a movie with me he always tells no that he is tierd, but if one of his cousins or brother invites him somewhere he never tells them no. So I get mad and comfront him and he tells me that he wants to spend time with them because he never gets to see them, but he sees them everyweekend. I feel like our son and I are not his priority. He just acts very indifferent with me all time and it hurts. So I came to the conclusion that I want to leave him and try to start over and gain my life and my dignity back. I just dont know how to deal with it and move on. I feel so confident at times but when Im about to leave him and just step back and wont do it...Im so scared because I think of our son, but them I feel that if I stay with him my son will growp up very unhappy. Please I need some good advice on what should I do, or how can I go through this
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