gwhizz89 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 My girlfriend of 9 months called it off with me as she is going travelling for 5 months and then starting a masters and didn't feel a relationship fitted in. We are clearly both crap with break ups and kept texting each other now and again, eventually she came down for her last night in the uk (we were mostly long distance after she graduated - i'm in my final year) with all our friends. the first night, we all got drunk, she got with me in a club and asked to come back to mine, and being the weak person i am i went along with it all. We both knew it was wrong and the next day she made the express point of saying that in text. The next and last night we all went out, and she got with some guy infront of me and all our friends, which is absolutely heartless. She said she was drunk and we weren't together, but how could she move on that quick? its just awful, i think she did it because she didn't know how to handle our break up and was obviously embarassed about the fact she got with me the night before so she wanted to show me it was over? But Its just very disrespectful considering she told me she really cared about me etc. We argued about it alot the next day over text and in the end she started going kinda mushy on me, she started saying that it was so hard for her seeing me, it brought all her feelings back and she made a mistake doing what she did with that guy. "I seriously messed it all up and i'm so so sorry." and then a plating of "you're the nicest guy i've ever met" and "i'll miss you". Part of me was screaming "tell her to **** off, i deserve better than this" but i just couldn't do it. i care for her too much, but if she can turn round and do that so fast, it shows she didn't care that much about me? I just don't know how to handle this. I'm new to a break up really and i'm devastated, i still care for her even after what she did to me. I even left it on a civil note saying that we may speak again sometime in the future as i didn't have the heart to cut her out of my life. I didn't delete her off facebook i just hid her posts. Anyone got any worthwhile advice on what I should do? I'm so confused. I guess I should be glad that she realised in the end she was the one that ****ed it all up and that she feels awful about it. It puts me in a better position to get over her but i still love her
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