ascoteton77 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Okay...I have no idea what to do in this situation. My ex has agreed to go out with me on April 17th. We're going to go bowling and then get some coffee... However, she said she is seeing someone... What's my next step in this situation? I do want to try get her back... Thanks!
Fufu Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Why are you going out with her when she's already attached? Please start NC, by doing this to yourself, you will not be happy. Unless, you don't mind being unhappy.
1784 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 This is a situation where you reap what you sow, unfortunately. It all depends upon what you want out of this situation. If you want to get back with her then there is ZERO reason to go bowling and get coffee if she's seeing someone. None. She is obviously interested in someone else at the moment. Does this means it's permanent? No. Does this mean they have the perfect relationship? No. Does this means she'll marry the dude? Of course not. What it DOES mean, though, is that RIGHT NOW she is seeing someone. Respect that and leave it alone. If she wants something with you later on, you'll know. But she has to come to you. If you want to be friends with her (although I don't know why anyone would put themselves through this kind of anguish) then that's another story. But even if you do, you still need to allow yourself to heal and be OKAY with her being with other guys (and all that comes with that). So you tell me... what do you want? Because you going out with her serves YOU no purpose at this point.
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