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I have been seeing this guy for nearly three months, we are both in our 40's yet I still need someone to look in from the outside and pass their opinion for me !

He lives about 40 mins drive from me and has only been to my house once when he picked me up for a day out, I feel like he checked out that I was living on my own and then isnt bothered to come and stay over with me. Having said that he runs his own business near his home and is almost always at work ( from 7am and it makes sense for me to stay with him ) I think ! I always leave at this time when he goes to work.

We sometimes meet half way between our homes for supper and a film and end up going back to his, never a consideration that he comes to mine in his mind.

Neither of us have said the "L" word, I wont in case I scare him off.

WHen we are at his he just sits down and watches what he wants on his tv, never once has he asked me what I want to watch....he just puts on things that he has recorded....then often falls asleep and I am there, I feel wasting my time whilst he snores lol

The only time he is really affectionate is, yes you guessed it, is when we are under the duvet!

He texts me at the end of his working day but often doesnt wait for my reply and only sometimes do I get a whole sting of texts as a conversation

He rarely rings me, its all texting when he has the time ( thats how I feel anyway ! )

Sometimes it feels like he is just too busy to have time for me, but it doesnt take a second to send a text to show that you are thinking of someone does it.

I hadnt seen him for a week and text him that he would have forgottom me by the time we get to meet up, he text that I was unforgettable......I dort of took this as a sign that he was still interested.....

Any ideas? As I write this I feel that I already know the answer.....

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Answered in your other thread (you really shouldn't have 2 running.....)

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how do i delete it ? it wasnt meant to post twice

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The Mod's will do that when they see it.

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