CARL45 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Why is dating in San Jose so hard on a man. I mine wow!!! There's more men here then women. I mine it's staggering. I've really only been on a date with a woman here once and I felt embarrassed because I felt like that was a big thing. Now I know what people on here are going to say "get in a club" or "go to church". Well I am in both I go to church and bible study and if you thought the pickings were slim outside of the church then its even worse in a group. Most of the woman you meet in bible study are married. Most of them don't really know any other christian women except the one's that are married. Worse off is the men which are( and this is not an insult) nerdy. They don't really know any women that are not attached and Christian. I mine it's so bad that my bible study leader who's now divorced is looking for someone and he's having problems. I am not going to pay a dating service. I am really thinking about going back east. I am really tired of this city.
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