CARL45 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Why is dating in San Jose so hard on a man. I mine wow!!! There's more men here then women. I mine it's staggering. I've really only been on a date with a woman here once and I felt embarrassed because I felt like that was a big thing. Now I know what people on here are going to say "get in a club" or "go to church". Well I am in both I go to church and bible study and if you thought the pickings were slim outside of the church then its even worse in a group. Most of the woman you meet in bible study are married. Most of them don't really know any other christian women except the one's that are married. Worse off is the men which are( and this is not an insult) nerdy. They don't really know any women that are not attached and Christian. I mine it's so bad that my bible study leader who's now divorced is looking for someone and he's having problems. I am not going to pay a dating service. I am really thinking about going back east. I am really tired of this city.
Thedude22 Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 I think it's really weird you use "Mine" instead of "Mean" unless you are trying to do a Tony Montana accent via text I have no idea why you would think it was spelled that way... Anyhoo when the going gets tough, resort to internet dating. There is something called Christian Mingle Jesus folk use to meet each other. I'd check that out.
cerridwen Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 People in this area seem to be really active in MeetUps of all kinds. Have you tried those?
UBFeelinMe Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Im from the east bay and every now and when i go out in downtown san jose i see ladies everywhere so i dont think the area is the problem (that's if you are open to dating non-white girls). Perhaps you need to step up your game as competition is fierce in the bay. Dudes here ain't no joke when it comes to mackin.
Mrlonelyone Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Isn't San Jose part of the whole Silicon Valley culture? Which is very much male dominated. By any chance are you a technical person looking for a woman who's similarly oriented?
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