mr.dream merchant Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 It continues. Today my friend's girlfriend messaged me saying she's found the girl for me, that she's a quality girl, "be kind to her", etc., etc. (Thankful for her efforts, I really am) I click on the facebook link and see a wonderful looking young lady who seems to be of Caucasian ethnicity. She wanted me to friend request her so I did. Upon her acceptance, looked at a couple of her pictures, and this is what I found: -Cleavage shot -Booty shorts -Booty shorts not to mention the 30 plus guys commenting with "daaaaamn guh you sexy" on each pic -Cleavage shot -Guy holding her at the beach shot -Bikini shot -Before the club shot in skimpy club clothes -Before the club shot in skimpy club clothes -Infant -Infant ...lmao, you get the picture. On top of that, on her wall I see a couple of status updates...: "This is the first time in a long time that I'm actually NOT talking to a guy" "I want to do something crazy" Calling several different guys "boo", "besty", "biffles"..and these are the same guys doing the lame ass pick up line picture comments mind you... Lol? Oh, word? This girl is 19/20 years old, a single parent, with a knack for showing off her goods. To quote her: "if you got it flaunt it" - yeah, I'm sure that's the attitude that got you knocked up to Ms. I'm Just Confident With The Way I Look. Definitely not what I meant by classy. This is far from classy personally speaking here. She's cute though! 8/10, and her body is flawless - she models. But I know trouble when I see it. So, without even initiating any form of conversation, I passed. Really appreciate my homegirl's efforts, but Grade A woman? Lol......let's be realistic here. She told me she's looking for a relationship, heh, well this guy is smart enough to say "No thanks." You all know me by now, so I say to you "If it walks like a duck, talks like a duck............" You know the rest. There comes a time when you give someone the benefit of a doubt, and then there's a time where you stop beating yourself up for being judgmental and call it like you ****ing see it. Don't be a dummy, dummy. Back to cramming Chemistry. Naysayers and skeptics, you know what to do. Here's a bunny who cares .
dreamingoftigers Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Um why don't you just hook up with her like you wanted to with the other skanks? Wasn't that what you were after anyways?
CloudLiver Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 @mr. dream merchant Go for it, bro. You know what to do.
Lilmisus Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 This girl definitely isn't of great potential. I know a girl who sounds exactly like this chick is as you described her, except maybe 21 (and is my ex's cousin who added me and about 1000 guys last year). White and gorgeous, mother to a four year old, has tons of guys saying things like that on her wall, dresses and talks exactly like that, and is looking for "a real relationship." Yet, she doesn't get what no guy appreciates her for her, and who isn't willing to go the long haul (over a week is long for her it seems, it's long enough to pass "I love yous" at least). She's constantly complaining about guys who break her heart and saying how "he was the one." So definitely a great idea to pass on this chick. But I am really curious: What are you looking for exactly in a girl? What makes a "quality girl" to you? Good looks? Easy lay? Self respect? No kid?
LeaningIntoTheMuse Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 You're painting her with a brush, and you've never even met the girl! Perhaps you should get to know someone before you call them a skanky ho?
BeginAgain Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Is this a thread about white girls who go for Black or Latin men?
Author mr.dream merchant Posted April 5, 2011 Author Posted April 5, 2011 You're painting her with a brush, and you've never even met the girl! Perhaps you should get to know someone before you call them a skanky ho? Ideally, it sounds like a good plan. But realistically, I've been through and dealt with so many hoes that I can call it when I see it, this girl is a hoe. And no, this thread isn't about white women who love to date Black Men and Latin Men, though I do have a personal opinion about those kind of women as well.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted April 5, 2011 Author Posted April 5, 2011 This girl definitely isn't of great potential. I know a girl who sounds exactly like this chick is as you described her, except maybe 21 (and is my ex's cousin who added me and about 1000 guys last year). White and gorgeous, mother to a four year old, has tons of guys saying things like that on her wall, dresses and talks exactly like that, and is looking for "a real relationship." Yet, she doesn't get what no guy appreciates her for her, and who isn't willing to go the long haul (over a week is long for her it seems, it's long enough to pass "I love yous" at least). She's constantly complaining about guys who break her heart and saying how "he was the one." So definitely a great idea to pass on this chick. But I am really curious: What are you looking for exactly in a girl? What makes a "quality girl" to you? Good looks? Easy lay? Self respect? No kid? Basically in a nutshell, a quality woman to me would be one who doesn't open her legs up to a man who she barely knows. A woman of a certain physical attractiveness, with that right amount of class and sophistication. A woman who gives it up to whoever gets her horny enough isn't the woman for me, at least, if I'm considering settling down and dating seriously. If she can display some self control, self respect, and self worth, she is a quality woman. But at my age, everyone just gets intoxicated and opens up for whoever is looking right for the moment. I just can't see myself hugged up and in love with a woman who has that kind of demeanor. It's sleazy and cheap to me. Again, these are personal tastes of my own.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 Ideally, it sounds like a good plan. But realistically, I've been through and dealt with so many hoes that I can call it when I see it, this girl is a hoe. And no, this thread isn't about white women who love to date Black Men and Latin Men, though I do have a personal opinion about those kind of women as well. Maybe you should take her farming.
zengirl Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I continue to remain shocked (SHOCKED! SHOCKED!) that you have trouble meeting classy women and are recommended to go out with women like this girl. Shocked, I tell you!
dreamingoftigers Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 :lmao: Agreed. I continue to remain shocked (SHOCKED! SHOCKED!) that you have trouble meeting classy women and are recommended to go out with women like this girl. Shocked, I tell you!
LittleTiger Posted April 5, 2011 Posted April 5, 2011 I continue to remain shocked (SHOCKED! SHOCKED!) that you have trouble meeting classy women and are recommended to go out with women like this girl. Shocked, I tell you! Ditto!
BeginAgain Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 But he is looking for something serious meaning he wants to leave the lifestyle while she is still living it.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 You obviously missed his thread last week about trying to get his friend's gf to get him laid. Not to mention the penis size thread. He's leaving this lifestyle like I am going to weekend orgies.
BeginAgain Posted April 6, 2011 Posted April 6, 2011 You obviously missed his thread last week about trying to get his friend's gf to get him laid. Not to mention the penis size thread. He's leaving this lifestyle like I am going to weekend orgies. I wasn't here last week. I just joined recently.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted April 8, 2011 Author Posted April 8, 2011 Say what you want, I'm not going to fall in love with a trashy woman lol.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Say what you want, I'm not going to fall in love with a trashy woman lol. Never say never. I didn't think I would love a homeless guy....
BeginAgain Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Say what you want, I'm not going to fall in love with a trashy woman lol. Not even a cum dumpster?
dreamingoftigers Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 They prefer to be called "ejaculate receptacles" now, it's more PC.
Author mr.dream merchant Posted April 8, 2011 Author Posted April 8, 2011 Not even a woman who's tired of being slain by a different guy every week, so she settles down looking for a good man. For the record, I'm single by choice.
dispatch3d Posted April 8, 2011 Posted April 8, 2011 Have any pictures? I'm having trouble visualizing this ;-)
lamaman3 Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 (edited) Its pretty sad that such a destructive attitude seems so deeply ingrained in your psyche as well as the psyche of most men. You have a very bad case of madonna/whore complex, where instead of relating to women as complex human beings you classify them as either madonnas or whores. The funny thing is that you seem to take pride in such an attitude, for reasons as vague and meaningless as "i don't want a trashy/whorey/slutty girl." Such a girl to you seems to mean any girl that displays sexual attraction other than you. IOW, you want a replacement mommy - (in baby voice) a girl that only loves me the best!!! Kisses me goodnight and was never sullied/trashed by the penis of another man inside her making her cum. Such a thought about the mother of your kids probably gives you nightmares. In any case, since such a virginal replacement mommy does not exist in a world of real women with real blood coarsing through their veins who don't stop living life for an insecure young man to post that they arent "hos" to an anonymous internet msg board filed with bitter men, youll probably find a woman who fools you for long enough into thinling she spent her teenage years closing her legs and wearing exyra long skirts so that one day she can replace mommy for mr dream merchant when he gets tired of sleeping with girls he calls hos and sluts. The problem is, your initial insecurity that gives rise to your madonna whore complex will eventually come through and just like you did with your ex, youll start wondering if she really is "trashy". Did she really want to have sex with the handsome mall security guard? When she gets tired of your insecurity shell break up with you like your ex did and when she find a man who understand women like me and sees them as human beings, she will unleash like a tiger - she can stop playing mommy with you and play the slutty girl with me and tell me she can finally feel free to unleash love and be herself, since shes with a man who lives life, as messy and beautiful as it is, instead of a man who is deathly afraid of it, still looking for his replacement mommy to represent a pure virginal love in a scary world. Edited April 21, 2011 by lamaman3
johan Posted April 21, 2011 Posted April 21, 2011 I hope your efforts to get someone to find your dates for you work out. I have to wonder why you're taking that path. Doesn't it work when you talk to women yourself? I mean, you have all the latest slang and euphemisms right at your fingertips. I would think that at least the ones who understand you should be really impressed.
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