How Many chances are to many chances??

[memleewill]

I have been on and off with my boy friend since august 2010. We break up over the smallest things and somehow are always drawn back to each other again and again. there is no real reason we get back together and i thought this last time was for good until he text 88 times in one day. i think he wanted my attention. we have always been gret friends to each other. this last break up was really bad but now we are back together and my friends are acting like i have lost my mind he has never hurt me more than emotionally and we have agreed to forgive each other for the past and have admitted to each other that there really has been anyone else but the two of us together since we broke up. yes he cheated on me i was blowing it off his guilt was to great and we imploded this last time at each other. I wonder if i am a fool for letting him back in again in the time we have been together we have already broke up three times but now we have been back together for two months and not even a shadow of that thought has came around. I wonder should i worry that history will repeat its self?

[loverboy1984]

I was a guy who cheated many times and got forgiven many times. Just recently over the stupidest thing I got dumped. I still dont know what it was but my ex cheated on me and I forgave her but she felt so guilty and ended it. I think if you love someone you give them a chance but you need to work on the foundation and make sure you really do appreciate each other and not just taking each other for granted. I lost my gf of 6yrs and now I am so sad. I want her back and would not even look at another girl. You never appreciate something until you lost it. I always appreciated her but I realized being so comfortable with her allowed me to get away with one thing after another. Im changed and I have understood my mistakes. I wont repeat them in my next relationship, but I hope I can get her back and be a better person for her. You can do the same before you end it for good. Maybe its best you do end it but first see if its worth it. If it is then work on it with him.