You'reasian Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 No, I agree with Cracker Jack. Odds are a woman who wants your number instead will never contact you. Getting your number instead is a cheap act at feigning interest. It would be better if she just declined. Agreeing with somedude81 and Cracker Jack. Women will give you their number if they want you to call them.
Dust Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 If a girl tells you she's dating or in a relationship with someone else, it means she's not interested in dating you.(She may just be dating or in a relationship) If you use this as a line to get rid of a man it almost makes it sound like but for being in a relationship they would be interested. Might as well just say “no” to the guy bother you. The fact that the OP felt the need to include this proves my point. Disagree with this one. A lot of women would rather call and test the waters without worrying that the guy might turn out to be a stalker type that phones 24/7 if she turns him down. You have nothing to lose by giving her you’re number even if she refuses yours. It would be best for the guy to get the number with the stated premise of doing something together in the near future. No, I agree with Cracker Jack. Odds are a woman who wants your number instead will never contact you. Getting your number instead is a cheap act at feigning interest. It would be better if she just declined. Try to get her number with the idea in mind that you two will be going out. If she is only willing to take your number then just do it. Obviously even when you do get her number it has a chance of not working out only made greater if she only has yours. If you see her and she hasn’t called feel free to just totally ignore the fact that happened (do not be like “why haven’t you called me?”) and just ask her out again if you’re not over her. No big deal, you’d be truly negative if you didn’t atleast take the chance. How about just "She's not interested?" If [fill in the blank], she's not interested. If the day of the week ends in 'y', she's not interested. If the sum of the squares of the legs of a right triangle is equal to the square of the hypoteneuse, she's not interested. Yeah a lot of guys think that way. Thinking positively will get you a lot farther. Just assume she is interested unless unequivocally proven wrong.
zengirl Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 If you use this as a line to get rid of a man it almost makes it sound like but for being in a relationship they would be interested. Might as well just say “no” to the guy bother you. The fact that the OP felt the need to include this proves my point. I think the OP means the woman is talking about those things PRIOR to the man even expressing interest. (It goes back to some things said in another thread.) If a woman is talking about her dates with you, in MOST cases, she sees you as purely platonic and either has no idea of your romantic interest or is trying to subtly discourage it. This is different than being asked out and saying, "I would, but I'm seeing someone" (the "I would" may or may not be true, of course, and it doesn't REALLY matter at the moment).
Tayla Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 *IF a guy is at a party and ask for your number, only to chat up his other friends to say , yup I am up to 30 girls tonight who gave me there number. He aint interested in you...He just wants a collection. *If the guy only wants to see you after dark, chances are he is only interested in one thing ....and its not to see if you glow in the dark. * If the guy cancels a date , and later you see him at the theater with another girl, chances are VERY good its NOT his sister , and ohh..yeah...he's not interested in you. *IF the guy "accidently" messages your best friend for a date, chances are he's not interested in you. (Yes I had a guy tell me he thought he was messaging my phone, til my best friend confessed he had been badgering her after we had all gone to a dinner party). I kept the friend and dodged the jerk. * IF the guy gets a call in the middle of dinner, in which his "betrothed" is calling to see why he didn't stop to get the invitations, chances are he is interested in not being married and its best to RUN!! Oddly I had no idea he even had a girlfriend (fiance') til you could hear her screaming at him thru the phone! It was rather comical. He paid the meal that I had accidently tipped on his lap Ohh and yeah..I admit, I wasn't interested anymore.
thatdog Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 If a girl you are friends with has a photo of you from BEFORE your friendship. she's interested. (and yes I really did miss this one despite noticing and asking about the pic). If a girl flirts with you in front of her bf. She isn;t interested. but she isn't interested in her gf either.
refurb Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 The only rule is there are no rules. Each woman is different. There are women that will put a ton of effort into hanging out with you and aren't interested. There are women that will act like they hate you but are interested in you. The answer? Do whatever you want. See a girl you like, ask her out. She says no? Move on to the next one. I've asked out a number of women who said "no", moved on with my life to only have them come back at me hard. RF
oaks Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 If a girl says she can't date you because she has to leave the country in a hurry... ...actually, I've had mixed results with this happening a few times with different women, so maybe it just means that she has to leave the country in a hurry. Maybe it means I should stop trying to date foreigners.
Cee Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 On the date itself, the guy starts talking about how busy he'll be in the future. Translation: Dating other people he has greater interest in, but if things don't pan out, may circle back. [Happened to me ]
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