threebyfate Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 For fun, let's start a blatant social cues list and what it means: If a girl tells you she's dating or in a relationship with someone else, it means she's not interested in dating you.If someone blows hot and cold, they're either not that into you or are confused. Either way, back off.If someone's gaming you, they're not that interested.Add more obvious ones.
SmileFace Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 If a girl tells you she's dating or in a relationship with someone else, it means she's not interested in dating you.(She may just be dating or in a relationship)
fortyninethousand322 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 For fun, let's start a blatant social cues list and what it means: If a girl tells you she's dating or in a relationship with someone else, it means she's not interested in dating you.If someone blows hot and cold, they're either not that into you or are confused. Either way, back off.If someone's gaming you, they're not that interested.Add more obvious ones. From personal experience: 4. Girl goes on two dates with you, agrees to a third. Then cancels, then deletes you off of facebook, and closes her online dating account. This also means she's not interested. 5. Girl asks you if you're seeing anyone and/or mentions a movie she'd like to see and asks you if you think it looks good. She's not interested.
Ross PK Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 If a girl says you're ugly, you're a dick, or I hate his guts. I've had those ones quite a few times.
confused611 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 1. if a girl is always "sick" and can't go out, she's not interested. 2. if you find that after months of asking, she still has yet to commit to a single date with you, she's not interested. 3. if you've been friends with the girl for going on 5 years and she has never made any moves outside of the "friend zone" with you, she probably never will.
Nexus One Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) If a girl tells you she's dating or in a relationship with someone else, it means she's not interested in dating you. I agree, however to every rule there are exceptions. A while ago a woman mentioned she was in a relationship, but then proceeded to tell "it wasn't serious" and then winked. Nevertheless I still backed off. Edited April 3, 2011 by Nexus One
somedude81 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) For fun, let's start a blatant social cues list and what it means: If someone blows hot and cold, they're either not that into you or are confused. Either way, back off. Uh, if you have to use or in your example then it's not blatant. If someone's gaming you, they're not that interested. Add more obvious ones.The term gaming is ambiguous. If a girl says to you, "I don't want to get to know you." She's not interested and a bitch. Edited April 3, 2011 by somedude81
Author threebyfate Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 I agree, however to every rule there are exceptions. A while ago a woman mentioned she was in a relationship, but then proceeded to tell "it wasn't serious" and then winked. Nevertheless I still backed off.The divide is that cheating and wanting to date someone are two different things.
somedude81 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 If a girl brings friend to a date and both parties know it's a date, she's not interested and a coward.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 If you are a girl and send a bunch of flirty texts and emails to someone, don't be surprised if they ask you out because they think you like them.
alphamale Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Add more obvious ones. if you ask a girl out and she hesitates or doesn't give out her number then she is not interested
Nexus One Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 The divide is that cheating and wanting to date someone are two different things. I'm not entirely sure she intended to cheat or that she actually was in some kind of open relationship. If the latter is the case, then what she did would be ethically acceptable in my opinion. I never did bother to find that out though. And besides, I don't want to be some kind of third wheel. So either way, whether she intended to cheat or has an open relationship made no difference to the outcome.
Cracker Jack Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 If the woman would rather you give her your # instead of hers, she's not interested.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 If the woman would rather you give her your # instead of hers, she's not interested. Disagree with this one. A lot of women would rather call and test the waters without worrying that the guy might turn out to be a stalker type that phones 24/7 if she turns him down.
Author threebyfate Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 I'm not entirely sure she intended to cheat or that she actually was in some kind of open relationship. If the latter is the case, then what she did would be ethically acceptable in my opinion. I never did bother to find that out though. And besides, I don't want to be some kind of third wheel. So either way, whether she intended to cheat or has an open relationship made no difference to the outcome.Polyamory isn't the norm or prevailing majority so to assume that maybe, might be one, wouldn't be consistent with the odds.
somedude81 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 No, I agree with Cracker Jack. Odds are a woman who wants your number instead will never contact you. Getting your number instead is a cheap act at feigning interest. It would be better if she just declined.
Mrlonelyone Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Based on what I have been told lately and some threads here. If a woman flirts with you and jokes with you....and your her friend... then she's not interested. If a woman is meek and bashful around you and your her friend... the she is interested. :/ Wait a second. Here's a serious one. If a man whips out his c*c* and says "you like" He's interested. If a man says he's interested... then he's interested. If a man says he's not interested then he's really really not interested. (Men are so easy... no wonder a word that used to just mean "happy" now means homosexual, "gay".)
Mrlonelyone Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Here's another good one. If a woman or man acts interested when no one else is around but changes when other people are around... they are interested but a coward about showing it and you should drop them like a hot potato.
Leeway Harris Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 How about just "She's not interested?" If [fill in the blank], she's not interested. If the day of the week ends in 'y', she's not interested. If the sum of the squares of the legs of a right triangle is equal to the square of the hypoteneuse, she's not interested.
dreamingoftigers Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 How about just "She's not interested?" If [fill in the blank], she's not interested. If the day of the week ends in 'y', she's not interested. If the sum of the squares of the legs of a right triangle is equal to the square of the hypoteneuse, she's not interested. If she was "never interested" none of us would be here.
SmileFace Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 :lmao::lmao:How about just "She's not interested?" If [fill in the blank], she's not interested. If the day of the week ends in 'y', she's not interested. If the sum of the squares of the legs of a right triangle is equal to the square of the hypoteneuse, she's not interested.
Mrlonelyone Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 If a woman flirts smiles and is touchy feely with you... but flips her hair to the left she's not interested... if she flips it to the right she's interested.... unless it's the third week of the lunar month then all bets are off. If the speed of light is constant in all inertial frames of reference, and E=mc^2 then she's not interested. Here's a serious one... If the man/woman will not introduce you to anyone she knows... and you have been dating for a while... then she's not interested in anything serious.
Leeway Harris Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 Here's one especially for you, Mrlonelyone: If a negative pion decays into a muon and a muon antineutrino, she's not interested.
Mrlonelyone Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 LMAO. Yeah it's pretty freaking random weather a woman will be interested or not. Furthermore based on things written on here it's standard procedure for a woman to send mixed signals. How about this one. If it's Monday Wednesday or Friday... and a woman smiles at you ... then she's interested. Every other day she's just being friendly. If a woman pulls down your pants and *********** right then and there she might just be interested. If she does that and flips her hair to the left then she's not interested and just having casual flirty fun.
zengirl Posted April 4, 2011 Posted April 4, 2011 From personal experience: 5. Girl asks you if you're seeing anyone and/or mentions a movie she'd like to see and asks you if you think it looks good. She's not interested. I don't think every time a girl mentions a movie she'd like to see, she's not interested. I've asked fellows out with similar type lines ("Hey, THIS LOOKS REALLY FUN, winkwink, ASK ME TO GO!!!!). All depends on the other factors. If the woman would rather you give her your # instead of hers, she's not interested. If she specifically refuses to give her number, I agree; however, not just if she asks for yours first but is fine with you having hers as well. (I'd say this is the same with men.) Generally, I've always done a swap---given a guy mine, had him text me, or gotten a guy's and texted him, generally instantaneously, if we both have our mobiles on us. Seems easier to me. But I'd rather get a guy's number so I know who's calling, as I don't answer unknown calls.
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