love4me2c Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I'll try to be succinct. I have 2 small children. I separated from my spouse in Oct. of last year. I wanted to try to work on our marriage during the separation, but I also was interested in dating other people. I've done a bit of internet dating over the years and without any luck. So I was bored and went out with this guy 6 years my junior the same week I moved into my own apartment and separated from my husband. Well we hit it off! I wasn't expecting this at all. All I wanted was to not be alone that night. Just like in the past I expected to never see him again after that night and move on. It has been a whirlwind romance. He moved in with me 2 months ago. I have a 3bd/2ba apartment and my children are with me 50% of the time. We both smoke but confine our smoking to either outside or our bedroom with the door closed. Ended up with the weather and all, we spent most of the time in the bedroom. Fast forward to 2 days ago, he tells me he has to move out. He just doesn't have enough space here and feels confined. He says he still wants to be committed to me and that when my lease is up we can find another place to live; big enough for all of us. In a good relationship without trust issues, I would not have a problem with this. Unfortunately, early in our relationship, he broke my trust a few times. Now, I just want to break up. I don't know what he does when I'm not around and in the past, it wasn't good. When he was living here, I knew what he was doing, where he was going etc... I love this man. He tells me he wants to marry me when my divorce is final. He's begging me not to end it... what should I do? I left my husband because of infidelity. I don't want to continue a relationship where I don't trust the person. Am I being crazy? I just don't know what to do. This is really killing me.
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