chris1987 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) To make a long story short my ex of 6 years moved out on Valentines Day unannounced. She said she wanted to start over but I found a new guy in the picture. I don't under stand that. I got her a car paid her bills and gave her a free place to live. Now she wants a 18 year old dude? I am 23. What its comes down to is she is trying to decide what one of use to pick. We broke up officially last week after I found a long convo telling the other guy how Horney she was and more but I will leave it at that. I went in to nc till I had to break it because my grandfather had a heart attack and we needed to talk to her grandmother about watching my sick grandmother who can’t be left alone. The next day we went to lunch together and it was the worst Idea ever. Nothing back happen we didn’t fight or any thing but it did bring back all the pain. Serves me right for doing that. If you think that going to see your ex for closure you won’t find it. Answering text like hey and what you up to will only set you back even if you want them back. After a few days of nc I started to feel liberated now I just feel like a pos. Take away your ex’s last power and don’t talk to them. Don’t do what I did and set your shelf back. Edited April 3, 2011 by chris1987
Little_Bee Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Sorry to hear that you feel all the pain coming back but good that you realised that nc is the only answer. Reading your story I can only say that you are doing the right thing; she is not worth any further thoughts if she treated you that badly. It's not on her to pick who she wants and it seems as she is not able to value what you offered her next to your relationship. I'm really sorry for you and hope you will be able to move on soon; just stay nc and time will be your ally.
Author chris1987 Posted April 3, 2011 Author Posted April 3, 2011 I felt so much better when I wasn't talking to her. NC does work.
Denillad Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Stay strong. It took me too long to see all this but I nc was the best choice cause he would do whatever he wants to make himself feel better. NC all the way.
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