Dox Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Ive been with my gf for 6 weeks. All i think about is her, sometimes i miss her soo much that it drives me into a little depression where i cant do anything but lie on my bed wishing she was next to me. Missing her is just painful and just really hard to bear, i dont know if i can take much more of it. Especially when we plan on meeting eachother and she cancels, this happens a lot but its not her fault though. This just breaks my heart everytime this happens. Ive tryed to keep myself busy by playing video games, but i cant even focus on this anymore because i'm thinkin of her. Ive tried to study but cant focus either. A part of me thinks I'm better off without her and the other part really wants to be with her. I dont really know what to do, shes my first serious gf and ive never felt like this before.
Hules Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 You are making her the center of your life and putting her on a pedestal. Big mistake my friend, she will end up feeling like she is the only source of your happiness. You need to keep yourself focused on the other aspects of your life or shes going to end up leaving you.
stepka Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 Why is it not her fault that she's always having to cancel? And I agree with Hules that you need to get a life of your own b/c you sound young and you two will most likely break up sometime and it will be much more devastating if you don't have other activities to fall back on. Of course I know that this will fall on deaf ears b/c I said the same thing to my daughter and she didn't pay attention to me either.
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