OhioLaw1987 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I found out tonight that my ex had actually been cheating on from about the first 3 weeks we were together, and had lied to me about the nature of her friendships with certain guys. She lied to my face. Our whole relationship was predicated on a scam. What the hell? I will never speak to this person for the remainder of my life. I got really uspet when I learned this, from a reliable source, and texted her "I dont care what happens to you, i know that you slept with X, Y, Z, and I never want you to ever speak to me again for the remainder of our lives." UGHK
lapse Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 (edited) Oh dammit, Ohio. 'Tappears that your ex has no depth of integrity or feeling. She sounds like one big attention sucking hole. I'm really sorry that you're going through this and I hope you can heal with cheetah speed. Now that it is over, will you please stop 'finding out' stuff about her? Seriously, if I found out my ex was a confirmed cheater (not just the ordinary ol online kind haha - really, it's funny) I'd be upset, too. I notice, though, that you keep 'finding out' things that really hurt you? Who's feeding you this stuff? I really, really think you've amassed enough to handle for the duration of your digestion of the break-up. Edited April 3, 2011 by lapse
DollyGirl12 Posted April 3, 2011 Posted April 3, 2011 I'm sorry you had to find this out. I also found out more than I wished about my ex bf after we had split. In a way it was good, because it confirmed many things to me and made me realize I did not want him in my life, period. But, there comes a point that you have to ask people not to tell you things anymore. You already know enough. My ex's sister, who I came to form a nice relationship with (the family loved me), would ask me this and that, and would I forgive him, and so on. I finally had to tell her that I would not be able to communicate with her if she was going to bring up his name. I had to completely separate the two. She respected my wishes and told me she completely understood how I felt about everything.
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