gils like to flirt with me but are rarely interested in a relationship...

[TouchedByViolet]

Why do girls like to flirt with me but are not ever interested in a relationship?

 

Tonight I gave this girl a piggy back ride in the bar for her bachelorette party (she thought I was cute and asked for it) but none of her friends were interested in me. I talked to a few girls at different bars but other than dancing none of them were interested. I get called cute, nice and fun but rarely ever relationship material.... sigh. At least girls like to take BJ shots off my lap... come to think of it I have had more BJ shots than actual BJs... wtf is wrong with that picture

[gaius]

You displayed weakness, all she had to do was give you one compliment and then your running around doing whatever ridiculous task she asks of you. That kind of guy is for complaining about actual boyfriend's to, not making babies with.

 

 

You're probably displaying the same thing in more subtle ways with all the other girls. Need to adjust your attitude and start taking control instead of letting girls lead you around.

[Hules]

Why do girls like to flirt with me but are not ever interested in a relationship?

 

Tonight I gave this girl a piggy back ride in the bar for her bachelorette party (she thought I was cute and asked for it) but none of her friends were interested in me. I talked to a few girls at different bars but other than dancing none of them were interested. I get called cute, nice and fun but rarely ever relationship material.... sigh. At least girls like to take BJ shots off my lap... come to think of it I have had more BJ shots than actual BJs... wtf is wrong with that picture

 

Why did you do this? To me this screams I have no self-respect and girls will see it the same way. If all they have to do is call you cute and they can have you doing stupid crap like this for them. You are no challenge.

[somedude81]

Yeah, dancing monkey comes to mind.

 

They were playing with you and probably talking bad about you to each other.

[mr.dream merchant]

Why do girls like to flirt with me but are not ever interested in a relationship?

 

Tonight I gave this girl a piggy back ride in the bar for her bachelorette party (she thought I was cute and asked for it) but none of her friends were interested in me. I talked to a few girls at different bars but other than dancing none of them were interested. I get called cute, nice and fun but rarely ever relationship material.... sigh. At least girls like to take BJ shots off my lap... come to think of it I have had more BJ shots than actual BJs... wtf is wrong with that picture

 

Sounds like you were out having fun, nothing wrong with that. As for the women who flirt with you but don't want to take it further, that's just how it goes sometimes. You win some, you lose some.

 

Keep on keepin' on, you'll eventually come across a nice lady who'll want to go all the way with you. These women in your OP sound like they to were just enjoying themselves, and as we all know, women get a little bit loose when they drink. They flirted here and there, probably handed their numbers out to. All in good fun to them, they probably had no intention of following through with their teasing. Sometimes women don't understand not to get the car started up if you aren't taking it for a drive you know what I mean? Then again, some women do - they just like toying with men.

[fishtaco]

Personally I don't think piggy back ride is a big deal. I've carried women in my arms onto the dance floor before. Flirting is flirting. It means nothing.

 

One thing you might try is to playfully ask her to give something back for the piggy back ride before you do that for her. Over act and be exasperated to attempt to comically reach for "fairness" or something, or negotiate with her as if you're a piggyback ride merchant, and haggle over the price. Make her massage your neck, rub your butt, in return, or whatever stupid little things. It's just flirting. It means nothing.

 

Anyway there's been a couple of threads on this topic recently, flirting means nothing. It's just play time.